Realistic or Modern OOC: Santa Monica Home for Boys and Girls [Reboot!]

[Dawnstar]

Yeah body dismorphia sucks.

And shoot?

 

[littlemedia]

Umm okay but like don't laugh
Its probably a really stupid question since Everyone else. Seems to know what it mean. But what does pleasure? Mean.

 

[Dawnstar]

I'm not gonna laugh.

Huh. Wow not the question I expected. It's not a stupid question.
Hmm... So pleasure kinda has two meanings: You can say something is pleasurable, like it's enjoyable, makes you happy.

But if you asking more like a slang verb, 'to pleasure someone' - then it refers to more like adult sexual stuff. To do private cuddles with your partner, or 'gently suck' as you put it with the boys before. The kind of stuff your parents might do behind closed doors in private as part of being lovers to make each other happy. It's the kind of thing that most adults don't feel comfortable talking about with kids since well, it's an adult thing -and also it's generally very private to the people involved.

 

[littlemedia]

Oooooooooohhhh okay that makes a lot more sense now thank you!

 

[littlemedia]

The only time I ever used it was to basically say your welcome but ya know you say my pleasure instead so I just thought it was just the same as your welcome.

But that made no sense how it was being used but now that I know that it makes sense

 

[Dawnstar]

Ahh yes, "my pleasure" is also a valid use. But you already know how to use it in that way.

I'm glad I could help and that it makes sense.

 

[littlemedia]

Yeah. Now I just Don't know how i feel about what Max’s friend said to me tho. I mean i dont think i am upset idk

 

[Dawnstar]

Awww. *offers a hug*

Did they say something rude or inappropriate then? :/

 

[littlemedia]

Its okay I’m good
I was just confused when he said he wanted to “give me so much pleasure” cause well i had no clue what he meant. But now i get it he was saying he wanted to do like sex stuff with me.
He’s like 11 or 12 and is definitely going through puberty so I guess he just has sex on the brain.

I just wasnt sure how i felt about him saying he wanted to have sex with me at first but I guess it kinda feels good to know he thinks im cute.
I mean I definitely dont want to do it im only 10 fur cryin out loud but its nice to know he likes me I guess

 

[KaiMedia]

Hey not saying you have to stop talking about this also your not like in trouble or anything but i just wanted to say we will need to have a conversation related to this a little later okay Liam?

For now all ill say is never let anyone do anything to your body that you dont want to happen

 

[littlemedia]

Okay?

 

[littlemedia]

I mean obviously its my body nobody gets to do anything with it if i dont want them to duh

 

[Dawnstar]

I mean I'll be honest. This is not a area I am gonna be able to help Liam in anyway, nor am I super comfortable with even if I could help.

I am actually an Biromanic Asexual or just 'Biromanic Ace'. I find both males and females attractive, but the whole ideas of sex and all that actually does not appeal to me, I don't get the 'sex on the brain' it doesn't happen for me. My brain doesn't find it appealing. Actually bits of it it kinda repulses me a little. Some parts I can hnadle but yeah...

I can talk about it but like, obviously your Dad and Pops are gonna be better at talking about the subject as a result.

 

[KaiMedia]

Lol i know bud it will make more sense when we talk later okay?

 

[KaiMedia]

And that is fine i don want any in depth conversation on that happening on here really anyways dawn but yeah you definitely have no need to talk about it

 

[littlemedia]

I mean I wasn’t like needing to talk about anything else i was just explaining what happened doesn’t matter either way i dont want to do any of that stuff maybe some day i will but not now and thats all i have to say on the subject

 

[Dawnstar]

It's a talk that you as my little bro's guardian's should have anyway.
Way easier to explain that way. Though wow... Maybe it was just because I was Ace and my brain never wired to think that way but I never thought about the topic, or knew what it was till like my mid-teens.

 

[KaiMedia]

Haha yeah i was definitely thinking about that stuff at like twelve at least to some extent but everyone is different

 

[KaiMedia]

But yeah the only reason i made my first comment the way i did was I didn’t want to just shut it down I definitely dont want liam to end up feeling ashamed to talk about sex because of me like just sternly shutting down the conversation

 

[KaiMedia]

But yeah just remember dawn never feel pressured into talking to Liam about something you dont feel comfortable with or feel i should talk to em about just let Liam know you feel that it would be better discussed with me and they will certainly respect that right Liam?

 

[littlemedia]

Yeah of course just tell me and ill drop it no problem!

 

[Dawnstar]

Oh yeah I know. If the topic goes too far out of my comfort zone, I will definitely say and put a stop.
That said given Liam isn't interested in that kind stuff right now I kinda doubt it'll go into enough detail for it to be a major problem here

I happy to awnser basic questions and stuff like I was, I have no shame in any of it.

If you later change your mind and want instructions, just don't come to me alright?

 

[littlemedia]

Well once i realized it was about sex i realized that i probably shouldn’t have brought it up on here but it was already too late.
So don’t worry we don’t need to talk about it.

Besides i am pretty sure even when i am ready i know i only want to do that stuff with Max anyway.

Dont worry Dawn i am not gonna be askin ya any questions about it.

 

[Dawnstar]

Hehe.

You can see why I was a little suprised you brought it up. Obviously you didn't know but like, yeah. It wasn't the kind of thing I thought you'd be interested in.

 

[Dawnstar]

littlemedia
We're still cool though right? *offers little bro a hug*