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Fantasy Lucid -- OOC

You guys had periods where literally everything just didn't want to go as planned and more and more burdens were placed upon you?
Probably yes, sadly. But that is how it is now and I feel the pressure is squeezing me to a paste. A cute paste but paste nonetheless.
Fantasy worlds are the only solace.
 
DawnAntalios said:
You guys had periods where literally everything just didn't want to go as planned and more and more burdens were placed upon you?
Probably yes, sadly. But that is how it is now and I feel the pressure is squeezing me to a paste. A cute paste but paste nonetheless.
Fantasy worlds are the only solace.
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Story of my life recently.
So I cope by coming here or sometimes not and just doing my own thing with music or writing my novel
 
DawnAntalios said:
You guys had periods where literally everything just didn't want to go as planned and more and more burdens were placed upon you?
Probably yes, sadly. But that is how it is now and I feel the pressure is squeezing me to a paste. A cute paste but paste nonetheless.
Fantasy worlds are the only solace.
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I can relate to that situation Dawn. Bout 2 weeks ago I was in the very same scenario where everything seemed like it was just crushing me and there was no end in sight. But, I found a light to hold onto and things eventually unfolded around me and life muscled on.
Its times like that, that make you stronger. If you can push yourself upright while things are trying to crush you, they wont seem quite as heavy.
Having RpNation and you guys to escape to does certainly help ^^
 
I thought about like that too but atm it is like 1 week of whiplash, 1 day respite and it starts over again. The main issue is that those people who are supposed to "help" you mess with you the most (my respect towards the only one who doesn't).
Idk, its just... feelsbadman material everywhere. It puts on a damper on creativity as well because if you fall home exhausted and with a sour taste in your mouth you just can't find motivation sometimes.
 
No, no. I feel that Dawn. I haven't really voiced it out cause it took me ages to accept it. It's been a week since then but I quit my sorority. And as you may have read I'm also quitting my job. But the good news is that I'm interning in the summer at the vets. However, my sorority made me happy. It was the one thing I joined after my transfer and I thoroughly loved my sister and what we represented. However, things changed over the past semester and I guess as you guys know, it's been a year since then? And so it's still taking a toll on me especially since it was around this time when things took a little downhill.

So, that affected me greatly and then school was okay and fine. But I got stressed easily too. So, I needed support from my sisters. So when I severed, some understood but most? Including the president completely ignored me and I get they're all stressed but I am too?

So the best action you can do? Is do you and think for yourself. Whatever decision or things you have to do to get through, it's not wrong and it's not bad.

It's gunna feel like shit. And it's gunna feel absolutely horrible and terrible and you may not get through it. But you learn to cope with it and eventually you'll learn how to work and manage it. Sometimes trying not to overthink and just taking a breathe and doing one thing at a time really really helps.

Also, sometimes going MIA for a little to an hour or so, helps too. Stay cool, Leo!

You know we are here if you need ears
 
I'm here...I just am in the midst of a major life decision and am working out the kinks with my parents this week.

I've ultimately decided to stick it out in the cadet program at UNG and know that it's not going to be easy and I will not enjoy most of it. I'm still working on seeing the positives to this more than the negatives, which want to drag me down.
 
It is exactly because of this that I am often reluctant to talk about things like this. Everyone has their own constant battles and struggles they must face and the last thing they need is to listen to the lamentations of others - that is how I perceived things from my part so thus I suck it up like a sponge and bounce around. Its just sometimes the sponge will be overflowing and is dripping a bit.

In any case I know you guys are awesome and cool and that is why I am happy that we are all gathered here in this little group.
 
Eh, it helps if we all vent about our own problems and then bounce off ideas of how to handle them with friends here.
 
Honestly? I'm like that too. But, the thing is, sometimes talking it out will help in the long run. Cause we are all going through some things, we all understand each other in a sense? And so, knowing someone is listening and just being there is like a big pat on the back. I'm the same way. I never liked telling people my problems because of that exact same thing. But,I don't know, I'm slowly opening up? Since I'm the type to close in? And usually it just helps especially with the sponge overflows
 
I'm sorry you are going through these things. I'm sorry it has to be rough and I'm sorry the path often feels like miles of struggle. You, have survived adversity before however, and I've seen the strength in each of you, There's light at the end of every tunnel, so I hope yours comes soon. Until then I will do everything I can to make sure this place stays a safe and peaceful.
 
DawnAntalios said:
It is exactly because of this that I am often reluctant to talk about things like this. Everyone has their own constant battles and struggles they must face and the last thing they need is to listen to the lamentations of others - that is how I perceived things from my part so thus I suck it up like a sponge and bounce around. Its just sometimes the sponge will be overflowing and is dripping a bit.

In any case I know you guys are awesome and cool and that is why I am happy that we are all gathered here in this little group.
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Nah, don't think about it like that Dawn. Sure we all have our own things going on, hell I just found out I am going to be a father a week ago. But Thats what friends are for right? I consider you guys to be riends seeing as how most of us have chatted on Discord or chatted outside of RpNation over the past 2 years. So don't think of it as laying another burden on us, cause personally I feel burdens lift whenever I talk to you guys too :)
 
Hehe, you guys are always so cuddly and warm. It is adorable.
And gratz Crooked! Maybe too early to tell but what do you think the child be? Boy or girl? What intuition tells you?
 
Thanks guys ^^ The last two weeks have been a big ol bundle of nervousness, uncertainty, and excitement for us. We are actually going to the doctor today to see the little bean for the first time and meet our doctors.
My wife and I both hope that its a little girl first. Of course we would be happy with a health, happy baby period. But if it IS a little girl, (and all the Fablewood folks will love this) we are going to name her Lily. ^^
 
zCrookedz said:
Thanks guys ^^ The last two weeks have been a big ol bundle of nervousness, uncertainty, and excitement for us. We are actually going to the doctor today to see the little bean for the first time and meet our doctors.
My wife and I both hope that its a little girl first. Of course we would be happy with a health, happy baby period. But if it IS a little girl, (and all the Fablewood folks will love this) we are going to name her Lily. ^^
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Ahhh, congrats! :D I loooove the name choice, too! :3
 
Tedronai said:
Congrats zCrookedz zCrookedz

Once again wasn't getting notifications. Just as well I'm comfortable being fashionably late :p
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Happens to the best of us, I can't even find the message where Crooked announced this, I just saw all of the congrats messages and then him talking more about the future baby. XD
 
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