I am all for having more people interested in this forum, I really am.  The caveat, of course, is that anyone who would be upset enough to LEAVE the forum after a discussion like this probably wouldn't be too happy here in the long run anyway.MOK said:I think Marquis' main point was that his opinion was aggressively put down.  I'd sympathize with his reaction. ÂÂ
Cmon guys, it doesn't hurt to have more people interested in this forum.
I have no desire to see Marquis leave our forum. Â Hopefully he can understand our aggressive argumentation and discussion habits aren't meant to make people feel bad or encourage him to leave, but simply part of our idiom. Â If he (and people like him) can get past that, then I'm sure they'll make excellent additions to the forums. Â If they cannot, they wouldn't have been happy here in the long run, because we don't tend to censor ourselves to protect feelings.
No reason to deceive him into staying through false treatment. Â He's an adult, and he can decide whether or not our at times caustic means of discussion outweigh the benefits of the resources we provide.