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  • I'm sick of being so damn lonely. Everyone out there has romantic partners, yet I, one of the most loyal, forgiving, and honest person I know, is left, forgotten. Not even those who are outcasts like me are interested in me. And now, even my best friend is in a relationship, so she won't talk to me anymore.. I have no one in the real world, and I'm even lonelier in RpN, because every person I crush on is either way too old or live thousands of mild away. Being single is great and all, but not when all of your friends leave you in the dust because of their relationships. I just want someone who understands. 
    minajesty
    minajesty
    I'll be your friend! We don't need boys!
    spookie
    spookie
    i'm sorry you're having such a difficult time ;-; love sucks.


    i'll never leave you in the dust, my friend. i know it isn't easy, but don't let loneliness take you... i know it well, and i hate to think of you feeling that way. i'm here if you wanna talk.
    Yo! Music enthusiasts! Anyone have any bands they would suggest (similar to Pierce The Veil, Bring Me The Horizon, or My Chemical Romance)? 


    I have free time (and a headache), so I need some loud, meaningful music to keep me company (cause that makes perfect sense)!
    Kololf
    Kololf
    Solstafir, their song "The Beach" (Fjara) is really good for headaches. Listen to the whole thing before you make up your mind.
    spookie
    spookie
    i already gave you suggestions, so you know what i like ^^
    If someone says that you are a pain in the ass because of your depression, should you still be friends with them? Cause that sounds a little shitty to me, considering I can't control my depression. ;-;
    C
    call me rae
    It depends on a variety of factors.


    One context. Two tone. Three the personality of the person involved.


    Some people are more prone to a kind of tough love approach to interacting with others. Some don't believe in mental illness as a real thing. Some people use somewhat harsh words as jokes.


    Example - wassup you stupid bitch?


    Depending on tone that could be a term of endearment or an attack.


    Example - dude stop being an ass and go do stuff


    Depending on personality and tone again that could be a way of attempting to get you out and doing things or it could be an attack. 


    Basically you got to ask yourself - what is this friend like? Do they tear you down all the time or do they say stuff that is maybe not politically correct but they come from a good place.


    At the end of the day it's up to you who you want to be friends with of course. If the way they talk to you bothers you let them know. People can be harsh without meaning to all the time.


    ( lol I come from a blunt family and my dad was convinced for years my anxiety, ADD, and even allergies were all made up b.s. that my mom came up with to get me on meds )
    C
    call me rae
    It depends on a variety of factors.


    One context. Two tone. Three the personality of the person involved.


    Some people are more prone to a kind of tough love approach to interacting with others. Some don't believe in mental illness as a real thing. Some people use somewhat harsh words as jokes.


    Example - wassup you stupid bitch?


    Depending on tone that could be a term of endearment or an attack.


    Example - dude stop being an ass and go do stuff


    Depending on personality and tone again that could be a way of attempting to get you out and doing things or it could be an attack. 


    Basically you got to ask yourself - what is this friend like? Do they tear you down all the time or do they say stuff that is maybe not politically correct but they come from a good place.


    At the end of the day it's up to you who you want to be friends with of course. If the way they talk to you bothers you let them know. People can be harsh without meaning to all the time.


    ( lol I come from a blunt family and my dad was convinced for years my anxiety, ADD, and even allergies were all made up b.s. that my mom came up with to get me on meds )


    Seriously it took my little brother being diagnosed with Autism before my dad thought mental illness were a real thing instead of woo woo nonsense. 


    But that doesn't mean he was being deliberately hurtful or callous to me. He just came from a different mode of thinking. 
    I mentioned getting a Christmas Sweater where the theme was just skulls to my mother and she looked at me like I was the spawn of Satan.. which must mean her memory is fading, considering she doesn't even remember who she is... 
    spookie
    spookie
    lol... i wouldn't wear any sort of christmas sweater, though... unless it came in pure black. but that would be just a regular sweater... oh well.
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    No, it wasn't a christmas sweater, it was knit and designed like one. But it had nothing to do with Christmas.
    My biggest joy is when Hot Topic has a sale.. all T-Shirts for $10. Pretty sure when I get back I'll be swimming in band tees. :D  
    No wonder I'm going to be single forever. No wonder no body loves me. I bitch at and get jealous of everyone that I care about. I hate myself.
    sorcier
    sorcier

    Don't be so hard on yourself, srsly.
    spookie
    spookie
    it's okay. i've been miserable all day, it's understandable that you're unhappy with me. i'm sorry you feel like this, and i wish i could help... 
    Idea
    Idea
    everyone gets jealous. Everyone bitches about others. It´s just our natural disposition as human beings, it´s called "self-love". No need to hate yourself over it, it´s something that´s hard to overcome.


    Whether you will be single or not, I make no promises, I am not God so I can´t say for sure. But I can tell you deserve to be loved and you don´t need to hate yourself for doing the same as everyone else :)  
    Apparently when all of your friends are emo you can't try and be joyful or else they'll assume you're happy and try to throw depressing shit all over you. Just a helpful tip.


    This is the one day that I try to make people feel good and it only gets me criticism.


    Oh don't I love the fact that no one gives a shit about me and my human emotions. :)  What a great place this Earth is.
    Idea
    Idea
    As someone who deals with depressed people frequently, to the point where I´ve seen things that... Well, you probably rather not experience, even over the internet, I can tell you it´s not your fault nor is this a reason to give up. It does sting, to go unappreciated. I would love to be able to come and say you´ll be rewarded or those people will necessarily turn around, but that´s not always true. Some people have depressions over being with some sickness (mental or bodily) , others just want the attention, some are just pricks among many legitimate and illegitimate reasons for depression. When someone tries to solve it, they become either a target to blow steam or an anchor to hold on to or are just ignored, depending on how persistent they are and how receptive the depressed people are. (or emo, as you´re calling them).


    It´s a harsh world we live on, but know this: your work and your effort is not for naught. Every bit of effort into helping people, actually helps, actually gives them the appreciation they may need to at least improve themselves a bit. And who knows? Maybe you will, one day, manage to turn someone around. Manage to SAVE someone.


    And aren´t the hardships worth that chance?
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    It's hard to help others when I, myself, am depressed. I try to support others, yet when I need help, I get little in return. I have saved someone before, but that was a long time ago. Things are differen't now, because instead of me being a hope in someone's life, I am a hypocrite trying to make people feel better when I myself am falling apart. How can I save others, when I need saving, too?
    Idea
    Idea
    We all have problems. You know this. I often feel like my own problems are neglected and like because the problems of others are greater than my own, that I should shove mine aside into a little shelf. But problems aren´t a matter of comparison , they are a matter of being problems.


    The point of that is, if we couldn´t help other because we had problems, then nobody could help anyone and that´s not true.


    You need an anchor yourself. Something that you can say is reliable to get you to carry on. I have found mine in philosophy and God. What yours is, is up to you, up to what you feel you can trust. Because there is ALWAYS something to trust, even if you don´t know it right away.


    Then use that anchor to help others. Use your own problems to connect to how others may feel. Be there, don´t try to do more than you´re capable of and be like a chair: simply there when someone needs some rest, knowing that even if you were not appreciated and aren´t always needed, if you´re available for them, you did your job.
    ***Warning: Mushy Gooey Emotional Status Incoming***


    First off, Happy Thanksgiving to whomever celebrates it. I'm not one for public declarations of my affection and gratitude, but today is the one day in which I will do so. Here's to my best friends that I have aqquired via RpNation.


    @Ashes_of_Eden I'm pretty bitter about sending this to you, but whatever. You're a huge dork, and you suck at dealing with depressed people, but you try so that's all that matters. I know you're eventually going to give up on making me feel better, because that's what everyone does. By the time you realize that I'm not worthy of your affection, you will no longer try to heal me. But thank you for at least trying for now.


    @Poseidons_Daughter Hey, nerd  :P  Happy Thanksgiving! I'm glad to have you in my life, cause you're always there for me. I loooove yaaaa~!


    @Rantos Thank you for being my ray of sunshine in the dark, Rantos. You mean so much to me, and don't ever forget that. You always make me smile and your attempts to cheer me up always work, despite how I respond. I'll never forget you, Rantos.  :)  <3


    @spookie spook Spookie... I don't know what to say.. We've only known each other for two weeks but I'm so grateful to have met you. Just hearing from you is enough to lift my spirits. You say you're a trash can, but you're not. You're a beautiful human being who I am so glad to call a.. friend. I will never leave you, and I hope you know that. I'm always here for you if you need to talk, please don't forget that. I'll always be by your side, because you're too amazing to lose. Stay strong, my friend. And Happy National Life is Shit Month[SIZE= 12px]TM[/SIZE]  :)  


    I would write to more people, but I'm in a crunch for time. I love you all! Happy Thanksgiving! 
    spookie
    spookie
    aww, reading this made my day ^-^ thank you so very much, i doubt my words can convey how much this meant to me... so happy National Life Is Shit Month™ to you too xD  stay strong <3
    Damn.. I just realized how depressing You Are My Sunshine actually is:


    "The other night dear, as I lay sleeping
    I dreamed I held you in my arms
    But when I awoke, dear, I was mistaken
    So I hung my head and I cried.


    You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
    You make me happy when skies are gray
    You'll never know dear, how much I love you
    Please don't take my sunshine away


    I'll always love you and make you happy,
    If you will only say the same.
    But if you leave me and love another,
    You'll regret it all some day:


    You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
    You make me happy when skies are gray
    You'll never know dear, how much I love you
    Please don't take my sunshine away


    You told me once, dear, you really loved me
    And no one else could come between.
    But now you've left me and love another;
    You have shattered all of my dreams:


    You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
    You make me happy when skies are gray
    You'll never know dear, how much I love you
    Please don't take my sunshine away


    In all my dreams, dear, you seem to leave me
    When I awake my poor heart pains.
    So when you come back and make me happy
    I'll forgive you dear, I'll take all the blame.


    You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
    You make me happy when skies are gray
    You'll never know dear, how much I love you
    Please don't take my sunshine away"


    The worst thing is, this describes my love life 100% ;-;
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    Exactly. My childhood just got flushed down the drain... but I'm ready for a metal version of this song now.. it would be pretty epic, at least how I'm imagining it.
    spookie
    spookie
    that would be extremely epic, i think... someone needs to make it happen.
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    I have Pierce The Veil on speed-dial, I'll make sure they get to work on it (lol who am I kidding? :P )
    In a shitty, lonely, anxious, and depressed mood.. so if I seem like a bitch when I'm talking to you, sorry.
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    Well I don't want to hurt your feelings.. so I lie to you to make things better
    spookie
    spookie
    don't lie... if the truth hurts, i can handle it. i just wish i didn't hurt you.
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    It's not your fault, obviously. I just got my hopes up, like I always do.
    While everyone's celebrating Thanksgiving I'll be crying in a corner. So that also means I'll be available to rp.
    I have been accepted by the emos at school.


    Today would be a good day if I still wasn't trying to recover from the shitty events that happened last night. 
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    ;-; You make me cringe. ;-;


    (I'm kidding don't hate me.)
    Darth Gangsta
    Darth Gangsta
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    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    Maaaaaaybe :P  
    Just had an anxiety attack and trying to recover. If I suddenly leave rpn, I'm not dead, but my parents probably have taken away my phone and computer because they found out about the 'wounds on my wrist'.. so.. wish me luck...
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    No you didn't! My friend threatened to tell my family about my depression and that won't end well for this pretty little princess. 
    Danchou Tsubomi
    Danchou Tsubomi
    Oh crud, sorry to hear that. Hope things get better for you. I haven't known you for very long, though I've enjoyed chatting with you.
    spookie
    spookie
    that is terrible. i'll be thinking of you the whole time, okay? please, be safe <3
    Should I change my username? It used to be a tribute to RoosterTeeth (Barbara Dunkelman) and RWBY, but now I'm so dead inside that I've descended from my cringy anime ways...
    spookie
    spookie
    only if you want to :3


    and i can't seem to load your message on my stupid ancient phone, it's too long and keeps crashing ;-; i will get to it as soon as i'm home... sorry </3 i seriously hope you're okay ^^
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    Noooooooo. The agooooonyyyy. Okay. That's fine... Just gonna sit here and cry. :P  (kidding, I'm actually fine right now..)


    Sorry that it's so long. I could message it to you in parts, but that would be kind of lame.. and would ruin the seriousness of the message. 
    spookie
    spookie
    it's okay, i'll see it soon... hope things worked out for you <3


    *internet hug*
    Where did all of my happiness go?


    Only three years ago was I a ray of sunshine, but now I'm a rose wilted with thorns, left in the shadows to die. Some try to water my roots, yet the forced affection only drowns me further. Some try to bathe me in light, but the crude, shining sun burns my petals to ashes. Try as they might, their attempts only fail. For this rose is far beyond gone, and left in it's place is nothing but a thorn covered stem.


    In memory of @AccountNotActive (formerly known as RedLikeRoses), may your memory reside within us all.
    spookie
    spookie
    that is so beautifully written, and so heartbreaking... </3 you're a wonderful writer ;-;
    I hate being alone, yet I push everyone away. I hate when nothing changes, yet I trap myself in an endless daily routine. I hate pretending to be perfect, yet I do so to appease my family. I hate society, yet I always try to conform to it. I hate perfect people, yet I am supposedly one of them.


    Everything that I hate has one common factor: me.
    Windsock
    Windsock
    You don't have fight, but you do have bee puns.


    In the end, isn't that what all the buzz is about?
    BrokenRemedy
    BrokenRemedy
    Told you, National Life is Shit Month is real.. that's why everyone is depressed!
    spookie
    spookie
    it is! that explains it 
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