Realistic or Modern OOC: Santa Monica Home for Boys and Girls [Reboot!]

[Dawnstar]

I was in total shock when I logged on and saw those messages on Liams account. Tbe things she said and implied... I wouldnt normally care what some stranger said but implying i was trying to or had hurt Liam like that..
Even after being aroumd since you before adopted him and both rounds vs cancer...

 

[Edric Blight]

I'm sorry to hear that Dawn but I don't blame you tbh.

I was like so offended I couldn't even process what I was reading . It was a disgusting claim and it made me sick that someone would ever think either you or I would EVER take advantage of a child, let alone a minor that Kai entrusted to speak with us over the internet.

As someone who has actively fought against the disgraceful disgustingness that are pedophiles, it mad me made to be labeled one. I hope you know I have no such creepy intent or ulterior motive when speaking with Liam. He's a smart dude who's just fun to talk to, and I'll talk to him like I would any of my other friends.

So yea Dawn, I totally understand your frustration here. And Kai, know this isn't your fault. You can't control what your mother said. But I certainly had no words, and the things she wrote stung for a little while ngl.

 

[Edric Blight]

It just made me so like, "wow" that some one would ever suggest I would attempt to take advantage of a TEN year old like that. While our age difference isn't that much, I'm technically not a minor, but I would NEVER do any of those disgusting things she implied. Made me sick to my stomach just thinking about it....

 

[Edric Blight]

I mean if she really wanted to, she could check all of our message history. Not once have we ever put him in danger or taken advantage of him. Plus, I'm sure we don't even have any DMs with him, we aren't in it to "get pictures," or whatever crap she made up. It's just disgusting she thinks she can tell you how to parent and that she doesn't trust you to manage your own son. Ugh sorry, little rant there.

 

[Dawnstar]

Im not upset at you Kai. But it reslly really hurt reading those messages. The things she called us. Im having trouble even trying to type this...
then your argument and family fighting it.. I started even blaming myself for your fight some reason and just crying then. And even now thinking about it. Part of me just wanted to log off on my PC pand phone and just run and hide.

Ive had 1 DM with him which was just a happy birthday with Kai CCd in the thread... and.. yeah sorry im just really not feeling great now

 

[Edric Blight]

Yea, I wanna make it known we aren't mad at you or Liam, but the things she said really did certainly hurt. :/

It was also hard for me to watch the argument too, and ngl I also kinda feel guilty like I started this somewhat. I feel awful.

I'm sorry about all this and how it made you feel Dawn, this sucks and we should have never been accused of being pedos. It's disgusting and makes me sick someone would throw around that awful word used to describe evil vicious people to describe us. Pedophiles take advantage of and abuse defenseless children, we have done nothing along those lines.

Man it just makes me enraged thinking about it, and I have refrained from using multiple swear words here ngl

 

[KaiMedia]

I was in total shock when I logged on and saw those messages on Liams account. Tbe things she said and implied... I wouldnt normally care what some stranger said but implying i was trying to or had hurt Liam like that..
Even after being aroumd since you before adopted him and both rounds vs cancer...

I know i know I tried to explain everything to her I tried to tell her you were my friends long before you ever talked to Liam especially you dawn like you had been a friend like you said since before i even had Liam so like i dont know what the fuck she was on about.

I totally understand the way you both feel about it the discussion accusations she made about you it hurt me so much reading it so i cant begin to imagine how you would have felt being the ones accused of such things.

I know its not actually my fault but man there is a reason why i had never left Liam alone with her but she had seemed to be doing better about things recently and seemed to be behaving and me and my partner hadn’t had a proper date in months and his parents were busy so i thought it would be fine for a couple of hours i thoght she would behave but clearly i was wrong if i would have just used my brain and thought abiut how she has always been i could have seen something like this coming and stopped it from happening we could have just had date night when my husband’s parents could watch him but know i had to go and think with the tiny head between my legs instead of the one that actually makes good decisions.

I know you guys dont blame me and aren’t mad at me but i just cant help but feel guilty for letting this happen.

You guys are my friends and i let that witch of a woman hurt you and for that i an so sorry. I don’t know why she thought those things and beyond that why she felt the need to go after you guys but she did and now my friends are hurt my son is hurt and i just... i just dont... i just i dont even know.

But none of that was your guys fault either the real problem is her and that she can’t handle that im gay and have a husband and a son and i just should of known better than to trust her alone with him

 

[KaiMedia]

Im also sorry that any part of that argument happened on here guys but she wouldn’t pick up her phone and i knew she clearly had Liams tablet and in that moment i just lost it I should have just waited till i got home but i was so angry i just couldn’t even control myself. But seriously that was not your fault none of this was your fault.

 

[Edric Blight]

That's part of it too that makes me sick and enrages me: she can't handle that you're gay and that you like men, and you're happily together with a husband. Ugh, that freaking backwards way of thinking is disgusting, why can't people just accept other for who they are, regardless of what freaking gender they love and are attracted to?

 

[Edric Blight]

Like wake up lady, gay people exist and can be excellent parents and can certainly handle their son without your old backwards advice.

That's why I'm so glad my parents are accepting of this kinda stuff despite being born in that older generation where homosexuality was taboo. Thank goodness for that.

 

[Edric Blight]

In fact, now that I think of it, literally one of our family members is gay and has been for a while, and had to be in the closet for the longest time because like back in the 60's, 70's, and 80's that was frowned upon.

I know I'm kinda going off on an unrelated side rant, but my point is, she needs to wake up and learn to accept you for who you are, and to back off and let you raise your child.

 

[Dawnstar]

...Is your husband okay? Like after last night..? Ruining date night. And with us?

 

[Edric Blight]

Yea, I'm wondering that too

 

[KaiMedia]

I trust you guys if I didn’t you wouldn’t be talking to my son i know you guys would never hurt him or take advantage of him.

The ironic part of it all being that she accused you guys of trying to hurt Liam the ironic part is that fucking which hit my son several times. A few times when he tried to get his tablet back from her then several more when she was apparently spouting shit about gay people and pedos all being the same or something and how she was going to save her grandson from the evil spawn of satan and apparently Liam responded by yelling “YEAH WELL IM GAY TOO SO WHAT NOW CRAZY LADY” oh boy let me tell you she is so lucky I didn’t know about this before she left my house cause i was already ready to slap her into next week if i had known she hit my son there would not have been a force on earth that could have stopped me from getting to her

 

[Edric Blight]

That's disgusting and sickening that she would ever hit your child AND THEN proceed to spew lies and stuff about gays being pedos and all that absolute CRAP. And she has the nerve to say YOU are putting your son in danger? God damn..... That's even more enraging.

Also I love Liam for standing up to her and saying that, amazing job and bravery by that boy.

 

[KaiMedia]

...Is your husband okay? Like after last night..? Ruining date night. And with us?

Yea, I'm wondering that too

We are all a bit riled up and sad and upset but we will get through it.
And my husband has no problem with you guys or you guys talking to Liam he knows I’ve known you for a while and he know Liam really like talking to you guys. Plus all of the email notifications for Liams account go to his phone Cause it’s under his email so he sees everything that happens on here involving Liams account.

So yeah he is fine with you guys.
Is he a little upset about our date getting ruined yeah we both are but hes not mad at you guys its not your fault

 

[Edric Blight]

See, like exactly. I know for a fact you aren't letting Liam run around unsupervised on this website. I know you have a watchful eye. Why? Because you know how to raise your kid and you don't need to be told how to raise him.

Also I'm glad your husband is ok with us talking to him, but if he wasn't I'd totally understand and respect his wishes. Liam's his kid too.

But yea, that certainly sucks that date night was ruined... :/ Ugh...

 

[KaiMedia]

That's disgusting and sickening that she would ever hit your child AND THEN proceed to spew lies and stuff about gays being pedos and all that absolute CRAP. And she has the nerve to say YOU are putting your son in danger? God damn..... That's even more enraging.

Also I love Liam for standing up to her and saying that, amazing job and bravery by that boy.

Yeah exactly the fucking irony right?!?!
When Liam told me what he said my jaw hit the floor he also said he has no clue if he is gay or not he was just so mad and just started yelling at her.

But I gotta say out of the people in this house this has effected liam the most he has been distraught all night and just feels terrible about everything. Even when he was talking to you earlier Edric he was still just kinda quietly crying in my lap but he was just trying not to focus on it.

 

[Edric Blight]

Ugh ikr.

Also yea, that's ok if he doesn't know which way he swings yet. He's still young. I didn't find out till after high school tbh, I was a late bloomer lol.

Also that's awful, I'm so sorry he's all worked up over this. It shouldn't be. Can't believe she'd hurt you and him like that and make a ten year old cry. And we're the monsters? Yea ok. Man.....

 

[Edric Blight]

I hope you and Liam start feeling better and we can all put this shitty stuff behind us.

 

[KaiMedia]

But luckily i never have to worry about anything like that happening again because her and my father are done they are never coming back into our lives they completely blew any chance of having a relationship with us i have no time for that crap in my life.

 

[Edric Blight]

Good. I'm glad you cut out those bigots from your life. Disgusting things they believe and say.... makes me sick man.

 

[KaiMedia]

Yeah Liam just keeps blaming himself for all of it and is adamant that its his fault. And it just breaks my heart i just cant believe any of this happened

 

[Dawnstar]

It means a lot to know your husband is supportive here. I started mentally spiralling and .. Well I needed to be sure.

Im really mad and upset that she hit Liam and made him cry. I respect him a ton for being willing to stand up for her but like it makes me soo upset.

As part of my work im background checked and every two years have to do a course on identifying and reporting abuse on kids like this. A thing ive had to actually report more than once.. There its just like depersonalised. Here though...

 

[Edric Blight]

Nah it's not his fault. Ugh that's awful that he thinks this is all on him. Even better reason to get that trash out of your life. How dare she makes your son feel like he did something wrong.