Merciless Medic
Walking Pokemon Dictionary
I mean, I've done it once or twice (or more) myself over the years. So I see that shit coming a mile away. BUT at least I try to do it before the RP starts. that way I dont leave anyone hanging. It super fucking annoying when it's done after everyone is settled in and in the midst of the RP, getting their intros in and interacting their characters and such.... and then BOOM... Mr. "My-grandma-died-for-the-third-time-this-year" comes along and has a crisis that bums them out and has them "take a break from RP for a while".
I'm not saying I don't ghost, or that I haven't tried to weasel out of RPs. But when I do, i try to make it with as little of a footprint as possible. I will say that when I do attempt 1x1's, that I am almost guaranteed to drop them in one fashion or another. And that comes from me wanting something other than 1x1 dynamics. Hence... groups. But that circles back to the problems I already mentioned. Ad infinitum.
Oof yeah. Bonus points if you see them active in other RPs or looking for more or making more interest checks despite having a "crisis".
But yeah, I getcha. :3 I try not to ghost either (I have done this before though), but when I do it's usually because I forget or I keep putting it off, then I forget :'D