CaptainMcNoob
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Realpolitik is fun. Either she deals and the Empire wins or the war keeps going and the Empire steps up its war economy and things get worse for everyone around them.
Not really how it works. She isn't in charge of anything, she pulls out and Astagorn refuses to deal with the Empire. The Empire can then start as the aggressor, killing any sympathy they have and likely getting other nations against them.
You are acting like her demand is super crazy. Its the same demands the USA put forth after WW1. Which were ignored [save for the second demand, the League of Nations, but ignoring the first part utterly undercuts the purpose of it so the USA did not join] and the war still ended. Just in favor of the Allies whom had rejected the US's ideas. Then WW2 happened in part due to those very same demands made by the Allies that the US said shouldn't be made.
This is Realpolitik.