Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
oh...uhmmm???? 0.0
LAST person to post is the winner!!!
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Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
uhmmmmm indeed 
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
that makes me nervous
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
hi sen 
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
yknow....i have an extra room at my house if you ever need it...
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
just as long as no one ever knows where you are going...
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
mhhhhhm
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
sen why are you deleting your posts?
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
so they don't get found
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
found....?
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
his parents will likely be checking the site to see if he's active.
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
are you for real
is this a new thing?
is this a new thing?
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
if thats the case he should make his profile private as well as turn his active status off...
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
i can see that hes online and access his profile
also he said you could tell me what happened before he deleted it
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
he was caught in discussion on here and they shaved his head.
Ah i wasn't sure if it was set for only those he follows to see his activity or not
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
WHURTHJKSGKLHGTRE
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
oh my god my poor boy
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
mhm...
Shaving a child's head as punishment is both emotionally and physically abusive.
Anytime you do anything to another person's body without their permission, much less in violation of their will, you have stepped onto the spectrum of abuse. Shaving someone's hair is very extreme for both physical and emotional abuse.
This act violates autonomy and self-determination. It violates a person's sense of self. The way we choose to wear our hair is a part of our identity.
This act teaches the victim that they cannot protect their body nor their person (spirit if you will) from profound acts of coercion and tremendous physical change.
This act is humiliating. Humiliation harms a person's sense of self, their self esteem. Willful humiliation also usually leads to feelings of hate towards the perpetrator.
This is an act that cannot be hidden. The evidence is very apparent to everyone the victim interacts with, for months, or even years.
Anytime you do anything to another person's body without their permission, much less in violation of their will, you have stepped onto the spectrum of abuse. Shaving someone's hair is very extreme for both physical and emotional abuse.
This act violates autonomy and self-determination. It violates a person's sense of self. The way we choose to wear our hair is a part of our identity.
This act teaches the victim that they cannot protect their body nor their person (spirit if you will) from profound acts of coercion and tremendous physical change.
This act is humiliating. Humiliation harms a person's sense of self, their self esteem. Willful humiliation also usually leads to feelings of hate towards the perpetrator.
This is an act that cannot be hidden. The evidence is very apparent to everyone the victim interacts with, for months, or even years.
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
truthfully, i dont think it is the same in the US...i feel like i hear of this sort of thing happening quite often
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
hmmm apparently:
There is no US law explicitly forbidding parents from giving their children an unwanted haircut, but it could fall into the broader laws of child abuse if the haircut is meant to shame the child and would cause him/her marked distress via damaging social repercussions, for example. It is up to a family court judge to decide whether a pattern of abusive behaviour toward a child is injurious to him/her to the degree that it merits legal repercussions.
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
unfortunantly, the court system in america is very fucked. especially right now because of covid. so even if this was brought to court, theres a possibility nothing would be done about it because as far as i know, we're still trying to catch up from cases that were pushed back in the heat of the virus. that, and most cases takes place on zoom now...
Caiotic
villains aren’t born, darling. they’re made
why does my spoiler thing look different han eveyone else?
Ezina-Kusu
Junior Member
we have the same here, but our child safety laws are a bit more strict here
