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Lmfao thats hilariousView attachment 817682
this makes me laugh
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this makes me laugh
So... I'm doing a rewatch of our fave show and something occurred to me.
Isn't the massacre of Lotus Pier directly Jiang Fengmian's fault?
He had at least a month warning (based on timings that are vocalised by characters)to prepare for the Wen clan arrival, and even before that he knew that they were on the warpath, what with the forced indoctrination and destruction of Cloud Recesses and yet he puts no defences in place, makes no arrangements for clan members to go elsewhere to hide or join up with other clans, or even to take the clan treasures somewhere safe, and basically sits on his arse until JiaoJiao just walks straight in.
This guy is seriously incompetent. And I'm not letting Madam Yu off the hook either here because if Fengmian didn't do anything then she should have. Why were they so lax in setting defences?
That's honestly an interesting point that I never thought about and you're probably right. I suppose he might have been counting on wwx/jc going to the Wens to possibly cool things down but even then, should have had a plan b lol.
Yeah, I mean the boys going to the Wens should have been a big red warning light, but apparently even after they got back, after the Wens deliberately left them in a cave TO DIE, he still did sweet F A for a month. I know he's kind of a chill and relaxed guy but really?! XD
JFM is not a good dad, tbh once you start looking at it closely. He completely gave up on his marriage and doesn't hide his favoritism. I'm not letting Madam Yu off the hook either, but she has a point in saying that JC is their son, their heir and should be treated as such. JFM let his bitterness at the fact that Cangse Saren didn't choose him and his dislike of his own wife get in the way of being an actual good father to his own damn son. Madam Yu didn't help either because she was the one constantly picking a fight and then lashing out at JC who wasn't at fault in terms of her shitty marriage.
All the family scenes at Lotus Pier were so delightfully awkward. XDDD
I guess I forgot if this was novel canon or movie canon butdidn't JFM plan to go to the Wen sect for something? Maybe he assumed that relations weren't that bad between the two sects? And especially because of the one month wait time, maybe he took that as a sign that things weren't so serious at all? Not to defend him tho — I didn't like him much as a character either
And slightly neglectful. I'll imagine he's the type that you think he's cool when you're a kid because he lets you do whatever you want but then when you look back on it, it's like....oh.I dot mind him as a character - he's just too chill and nice for his own good. He's like a hippy dad who lets you smoke weed at home. XD
And slightly neglectful. I'll imagine he's the type that you think he's cool when you're a kid because he lets you do whatever you want but then when you look back on it, it's like....oh.
because:
1. Left you at home alone to eat only crackers and cheese cubes because there was barely anything in the fridge.
2. Came home at odd hours of the night, most likely drunk or stoned out of his mind. Immediately goes to bed after half-assing an interaction with you.
3. Friend group seemed to rotate like a revolving door.
4. Sometimes dragged you along to places where you just sit in the corner awkwardly while he visits a "friend" (dealer??)
5. In this universe, YZY and he are divorced but you still go to her on weekends (split custody?) where she probably bad mouths him the entire time.
6. Stiff awkward exchange when YZY hands you back to him.
Not that I remember.
I think that was novel canon, but wiki could be inaccurate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'm really loving this discussion about JC's childhood. I don't think I have a lot of information/headcanons about it since the TV series didn't touch on it all that much? Or if they did, I've forgotten about the details, since most of my focus in MDZS is post-resurrection and post-canon. The pet thing really is shitty, I gotta say. I mean if he can't compromise, at least he should've convinced JC or something? Like what I see parents do is provide the children with a reason or a different perspective until they sort of agree. But still, compromises are so easy here — like, just give it to maybe the servants or something, so that it's not in the main house but JC could still visit and such. It's not that hard my dude.
I recently read this fic where JL is punished in Cloud Recesses, but he went "they're not actually gonna hit me, are they? like I've never been hit before" and I was like awwww Jiang Cheng you softie
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jeez yeah, that’s irresponsible imo. We don’t know how good he is at being a sect leader but he’s definitely not dad material
It's about the most convincing evidence I can think of.I think letting the Wen clan tear his whole sect down and kill everyone indicates that he is a bad sect leader.
I think it's hard for JFM being surrounded by angry people. He just doesn't get it. He probably sees some of the worst aspects of YZY in JC, whereas YZY is always pissed off at JC for not being a special genius like WWX and making her look bad.
Getting rid of pets AND playing favourites with your children.... JFM what are you like.
Probably No one . Everyone has daddy or mommy issues, unfortunately. Other candidates (the ones who were alive at the start of canon) are LQR & WRH I think, unless we start racking our brains for more minor characters