Lappi
The Living Script
I hear ya.I'm a female, but I have found writing males has always been my preference. I write such diverse characters when they're male, I can really branch out and not put aspects of of myself in them too much.
But I can't not make female characters some version of me, and thus there's less creative liberties and it just gets boring when it's too personal. It's a flaw of mine actually!
The reason I don't write as males so much is because they are always gobbled up by those who only write female. And I don't like writing a lot of romance especially from a male's perspective at all. So I don't get to write as them as much!