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Realistic or Modern BACH HOUSE (a mxm dating show) cs + apps

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irl miya atsumu
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bach house
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LOVE ME LONG, BE MY SUNLIGHT ♡



















the sheet

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Welcome! We are glad you are interested in BACH HOUSE. Before you can post a full character sheet, you are required to apply for a position. This is not first come first serve and your application will give us a taste of your writing to see if you will be a good fit for the RP! For your application, the following is required

❥ Image of your character
❥ Character's Name
❥ Character's Age
❥ Character's Gender/Pronouns/Sexuality
❥ A small blurb of both your character's personality and a bit of the backstory!

Please remember we are looking for animated/drawn faceclaims and have fun with it! Everyone should be a human man or along the masc gender identity spectrum! AI is not allowed and all applications with an AI fc will be disqualified. A pretty/coded post is not required, but you are welcome to use the one I have provided as an example! Once you are accepted and have joined the Discord, you are welcome to edit your post to a full character sheet, where you are welcome to add as much detail as you'd like! At this time, you are only allowed to play ONE character. In the case of low interest, you might be able to play two if you can handle it.









this summer's cast

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julian king

Dating App CEO and Instagram Influence--and yet unable to land a date himself. Julian, a man so obsessed with setting other people up himself seemed to forget to find a lover himself. Therefore, his best friend signed him up for this show in hopes of him putting themself out there. He's looking to woo someone or even have his own feet swept out from under him. A self proclaimed cupid ready to find his happily ever after.







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julian















name

julian king






nicknames

jules, jewel






age

twenty-nine







gender

cis male(?)





pronouns

he/him/they(?)





sexuality

gay









Julian is usually perceived to be much older than he actually is. While most would think that's due to his grey hair, it's actually due to the fact he is an incredibly young business owner. Julian is the current owner of Kiss2Cute, one of the hottest dating and match making sites available right now! Currently, he has left the company in charge with his business partners to focus on himself. And his Instagram account. One doesn't get over a million followers by doing nothing! Both are his current passions in life.

Julian was able to start his company so young due to the fact he had forced himself through as much schooling as humanly possible when he was younger. Graduating both university and high school early, Julian has always been a do-er. He's known what he's wanted since he was young as well. And given the fact he has primarily been on his own since he was sixteen? He's doing pretty good for himself. Julian prides himself in his work; both jobs being the reason he keeps going in life.

When he was sixteen, Julian had come out as a homosexual to his parents. They didn't take it very well and forced him out of their home. Julian was thankfully able to live in his very eccentric aunt's home for a while. She was the mother he always deserved after all. His aunt was a huge driving force in him finishing school very early and achieving his dreams. Unfortunately, she had passed not long after the launch of Kiss2Cute, but he will always treasure her.

Julian is quite literally in love with the idea of love. Helping people find their true love has always been his passion. He likes to think he's the human incarnate of Cupid. Julian has always played matchmaker to his friends. And usually he was right on the dot with it. He never plays around when it comes to love. Although, he's usually too busy helping other people find love to focus on serious relationships of his own. Perhaps one day he will find his perfect match too!

He is a lover of pinks and reds (the colors of love of course!). He absolutely loves to travel and he is incredibly thankful for where he is now, allowing him to travel freely. But Julian is not the type to simply horde money. He is constantly making donations to various charities, with LGBT+ ones being his personal favorite. Julian didn't come from money and thankfully the money and fame hasn't tainted him too bad. Julian is a very flirty, very touchy person. He constantly craves affection and attention, but on his own terms of course. Julian is a friend to all, ready to lend a hand when needed. He truly tries his best.

Julian is joining the bachelors for Bachelor House purely because his own circle of friends were so tired of him helping other people be in love that it was time he focused on himself! Instagram hiatus post up and he's ready to go!




























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August















name

August Sinclair






nicknames

Attie






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Twenty-five (25)







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Male





pronouns

He/Him





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Gay









Figure skating was August's greatest passion, a dream he had since he was little and watched his mother's old competition video's. Though his mother had been famous in her own right, she wanted her son to follow his own aspirations without being cast in the shadow of who she used to be but she had been pleasantly surprised when August begged her to sign him up for classes. Soon he was on the ice and there was no going back. Between his ballet classes, skating lessons, and keeping his grades up, August rarely had time for making friends and he came off as aloof and withdrawn in the eyes of the other children his age but if one were to watch him skate that was where he came alive and his eyes sparkled with an unimaginable joy.

The years passed and August's name continued to climb the ranks as he competed time and time again. He started getting noticed on the streets and his social media following grew and grew. His future was shining as bright as a star in the sky but it all came crashing down around him soon enough. One wrong move while skating, an over-extended movement and his skating career began to slip through his fingers. Though they told him that his knee would make a swift recover, he noticed their whispered conversations that cut off when they thought he was listening, saw the concerned glances they gave him when they thought he wasn't looking.

With an injured knee, he was forced to take leave while he recovered with strict instructions to stay off the ice. His mother came to stay with him to help take care of him and it didn't take her long to notice the life in August's eyes growing dimmer day by day. His mother felt desperate and wanted to take his mind off of his current situation, which was why she signed him up for Bachelor House. Well-meaning yes, but not the best thought out plan she has ever had.

August was shocked to say the least; though there were rumors over the years of him dating other fellow skaters, he had been too focused on his career to worry about his love life and now he was expected to fall in love in front of millions of people? He was skeptical, but at least it was better than moping around his apartment.

Though social media had painted August as being cool and detached, the real truth was that he was simply shy. Growing up with his intense focus on skating left him without friends to interact with and now as an adult, August still can't figure out how to hold much of a conversation. He becomes flustered rather easily and he has zero experience when it comes to dating or any of the aspects of finding a match. He surmised that getting through this show was going to be harder than any competition he has faced yet.




























History Maker

Dean Fujioka






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Elias


  • Name: Elias Cosmos Akamatsu

    Nicknames: Lee

    Age: twenty-seven

    Gender: cis male

    Pronouns: he/him

    Sexuality: gay, demisexual

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Taylor















name

Taylor Jung






nicknames

Tay






age

Twenty-eight







gender

Cismale





pronouns

He/Him





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Son Do-hyun (Guard Pass)





sexuality

Gay (as in homosexual)









Taylor's family is full of athletes and was expected to carry on expectations placed upon him at such a young age. When he was eight years old he got into amateur wrestling which took him a while to adjust. He initially hated attending practice since it would always be after school when he wanted to play video games and laze around. Most nights would mostly be just studying and wrestling without any break to do whatever he wanted except on weekends. Over time, he managed to tough it out and started competing when he was thirteen where he got third place in a bracket of only three people.

He didn't take the loss easily, it made him feel shitty, but his dad who put him in wrestling in the first place was upsetting for him. Taylor's dad was very intrusive in his son's life, always making sure Taylor was always training and studying which molded Taylor's perception of his father. He didn't trust him with his emotional well-being since he never seemed to care about how his son was feeling and was fixated on his achievements.

Taylor never felt like he had an outlet to express himself truly. He eventually learned to enjoy wrestling but it was the only thing he had. Going into high school he held a lot of angst from his tweens. He struggled with his sexuality with no one to look up to or trust with his feelings. So when he finally started socializing, he found himself in very unhealthy relationships, especially with other boys who would consider themselves queer.

Between his tumultuous love life and his expectations both academic and athletic, he found himself in a depression that he didn't know how to get out of. His first loss meanwhile was a one-off, but his dad never stopped talking about it with passing remarks. Even though had many 1st place medals from competing regionally and nationally and even a full-ride athletic scholarship, it was never enough to please him.

When attending college, Taylor decided to get a degree in philosophy, an interesting choice for a college athlete who would usually choose an 'easy' degree like communications. He enjoyed the curriculum because it gave him something to think about that didn't involve relationships or personal achievement. He began to appreciate how many unanswered questions there were and the approaches to life's meaning. He took a vow of celibacy and a break from dating for a while in between his training and studying to get himself grounded and start living life for himself.

When he graduated, he was much happier and came out to his family who were accepting and his dad wasn't judgemental but still wondered when he was going to qualify for the Olympics. Still under scrutiny from his father, he felt like he needed a change which is why he chose to join the Bachelor House, with his renewed confidence in his sexuality and sense of self, maybe he can have more positive and healthy experiences with other queer men.




























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Fin















name

Fin Dhammika






nicknames

just Fin!






age

30







gender

non-binary masc





pronouns

he/they





sexuality

pan










Preferring to stick to the safety of relative anonymity, signing up for a reality show wasn't something Fin thought they would ever do.

Having established a home with a found family after a turbulent adolescence with many a strained relationship, he has not completely unlearned the tendency to be on constant alert. As a result they have become reluctant to draw attention to themselves. He reserves his more energetic, openly joyful side for when he feels it is safe to do so, though over the years he has settled into a more calm demeanor, feeling increasingly more at ease with himself and the people he surrounds himself with.

Lacking ambition in the way of a career, he has taken on a part-time job with his buddy's gardening business while pursuing various creative interests in his free time and spending sunny afternoons with his close friends. Passions and interests come and go, but among them was a short stint in photography, a semi-permanent painting practice and even a dalliance as a stick-and-poke tattoo artist. To live this way at 'his age' is not always understood by outsiders. But for Fin it is less of a choice and more of a requirement to be happy and fulfilled. At least part of the reason for this was a high-pressure childhood, filled with expectations he consistently failed to live up to, having a very different set of values he prioritized than the ones his family held up.

Fin's dating life was not much to write home about in the past; insecurity and shyness prevented him from really making a connection. But now that he's gotten used to having some stable ground under his feet, Fin is ready to take more risks and put himself out there. Applying for Bach House seemed like a crazy idea at first, but maybe the story he told himself about being an irreparable introvert was just that, and throwing himself in the deep end might be just the thing he needs to make some true connections.





























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