What does happiness mean for you?

Sapphira

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Maybe hearing about your happiness will give me the courage to find my own.


Please share any tips you have on life balance, achieving your goals and enjoying what life has to offer.
 
There are many things that can give you happiness in life. WIth every person comes a different way of doing it. But here, I'll share you what I have so far and what I'm trying to reach out to.


Family


Because of the fact that the school year is ending, I've been having myself look out for a job. You see, sadly in my current situation, money is needed, but mainly because I want to achive things such as changing the house I live in with my family right now. Which leads to this:


- Being together as family and sharing things with people that have always been around you is one way to do it.


Friends Irl/Online


Then there's this. Lately I've been going on around with ideas of what to do this summer or in general. Being a gamer and everything, I've thought of going on with different people and start a guild or two in a few games and actually concentrate on the RP part of everything. Which once more, leads to this:


- Searching for people with your own interest is a good way to get yourself a smile onto the face especially if you get to do something big that takes time which in the end gives you a good result


Personal Objectives


Getting to learn new things in life leads you to expanding your to-do circle. Usually it's a great way to have yourself learn more things about you that you never really knew before. Whatever it is, you shouldn't be afraid of going straight for what you want regardless of the judgement. Which leads to this:


- Just, do it!


Personal Comment:



I personally am just trying to finish my school year right now and help a few buddies of my own find a job while helping others with university. I know this might sound weird coming out of a highschooler that is almost 18, but the knowledge of one can always help another. That's also a way to do something that can become a goal in your life to make you happy.


Keyword: Helping others !





And last, I wanna say that this might sound very stereotypical and things that your parents might tell you or things that you might hear from others, but right now, I took myself several minutes to write this with the first things that popped up in my head because I've been rather busy and with this, I've been multi tasking, but remember this. As normal as these things sound to you, remember that the bases are the most important things in building something big and with out a good starter, there is no good ending.
 
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Being yourself. Not letting others dictate your life and going with your gut.


When someone asks if I like anime I say hell yeah. Do I play games? Yep. Where did I meet my wife? Anime forum. What are you doing this weekend? Maybe a bit of D&D and playing video games.


I've met the coolest people after I decided not to care how people saw my likes and dislikes. I made no apologies for it, and with that I found like minded people. My parents told me they would disown me if I married my current wife. I told them "Well that sucks" and did it anyway. Best decision ever. I feel free and empowered and that step propels me forward.


Hope you find the same.
 
Maybe find something you're really passionate about and explore that. Maybe you love photography? Go out and take every picture you can, capture the moment and make it yours. I'm not entirely sure this is helpful, but I hope it is at least somewhat :)
 
Love. Not necessarily limited to romance, but finding a kindred soul and really connecting with them. Working hard to improve their lives, spread hope, and knowing that it's genuinely appreciated rather than simply being used for personal gain.
 

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