Pretty Little Creature
Hello
Oh my gosh. I have seen this happen. And it's horrible! Just horrible! I hate people that are like don't be a smug pregnant lady.Worst players would be:
- Someone who ghosted me because I got pregnant irl (I talked to them about it once, they got super rude about it, told me not to be a smug pregnant lady)
- This guy who got super possessive and jealous and would like time me and shit when I went grocery shopping, because he wanted a reply. Called himself my best friend after like a day of talking.
- This girl from back in my AIM days, who wasn't a bad writer? But she always played the same character. And this character latched onto the villain of whatever fandom (Manfred von Karma from Ace Attorney, Rotti Largo from Repo!) and she wanted to be their Stepford Wife/Baby Mama. Like it never makes sense for the character. Maybe Rotti, maybe, but she'd disappear the moment he was mad at her. Anyway, it was always basically the same story, you just subbed in whatever villain she wanted.
- Marvel/DC rp where Batman learned a slur against mutants and then proceeded to only use that term when talking to the X-men. Like, what?
- Lady I used to know, who always made these "badass, don't need no man" characters who did, in fact need a man to come save them. It wasn't done ironically. Also absolutely all of them had Elliot Page's face. She also had a bad habit of ruining what other people were trying to accomplish, like butting into a a fight two other players agreed on the outcome of, and then ruining their plans and complaining when she was called on it.
I used to role-play with someone who was exactly like that. It was pretty disgusting in my opinion.
Sorry I have a womb and have decided to have a child? Sorry that offends you? Sorry that triggers you? Like what sort of time do they have on their hands to get upset over that?
Like congratulations is probably the right thing to say. And that's not being smug. Creating a small human takes a lot of work and effort and sometimes worry. No need for that trash people. I'm so sorry you experienced that.