Dutch
Ta Reine
I just think it's very common because of who dominates the community. I can't say without some kind of poll across hundred of sites. But there are a lot of women and LGBTQIA+ people in the paragraph rp community, and we love romantic theming, shipping and character + relationship driven stories (this is inside of our fantasy epics, our scifi galactic space pirate adventures, our murder mysteries, and war stories).
I mean I'm a woman and I am queer . . . and 90% of my bookshelf, 100% of my AO3 reads, and 100% of my roleplays have romance themes with various non-romance plots. Sure my RPs tell narratives that go beyond "getting in each other pants" and yes my fic reads are more than just fucking, and yes the books in my shelf tell grand sweeping epic tales with romance in them! BUT they are also romantic, and yes people are also trying to get into each other pants; doesn't make the theme inherently wrong.
I am but one gay girl defending a pretty fun theme/genre . . . and I can't prove why it's popular . . . I can only really make general sweeping statements . . . and I know not all women or gays are like me.
But I can say people are mean about romance and I want to defend that shit to my dying breath!
I mean I'm a woman and I am queer . . . and 90% of my bookshelf, 100% of my AO3 reads, and 100% of my roleplays have romance themes with various non-romance plots. Sure my RPs tell narratives that go beyond "getting in each other pants" and yes my fic reads are more than just fucking, and yes the books in my shelf tell grand sweeping epic tales with romance in them! BUT they are also romantic, and yes people are also trying to get into each other pants; doesn't make the theme inherently wrong.
I am but one gay girl defending a pretty fun theme/genre . . . and I can't prove why it's popular . . . I can only really make general sweeping statements . . . and I know not all women or gays are like me.
But I can say people are mean about romance and I want to defend that shit to my dying breath!