ashen.eidolon
where do we go now but nowhere?
So I've been running into an issue a lot in my years of roleplaying and I want to know if it happens to anyone else and what their thoughts are... For the record I had a rpn account years ago and this is a new one cause I just don't really feel like the same person anymore, yadda yadda, long time roleplayer here and not nearly as new as my account makes me look lol. Anyway:
I find I will post an interest check, and this mainly happened with 1x1s but I've even experienced it to a small degree with group roleplays. And I try to have a solid plot starting out and everything, as well as room for the other person to work in their ideas and characters. But I haven't gotten a single roleplay off the ground in several years because I keep running into the same issue.
Someone will say "hey, I like your plot/idea and would love to do this with you!" So I will respond and ask general questions like "okay what did you have in mind for your character?" Or "did you have any additional ideas you'd like to share?"
And I must be a magnet for these people because I swear every single time I'm getting people who immediately hit me with not just one but MULTIPLE already fleshed out characters with backstories and plots that do not fit the roleplay at all. Then even better, they tell me which one they'd like me to play!
They express interest in my original idea and then completely change it to something totally different with all their own characters. I went along with it for the hell of it one time and they STILL didn't like what I did with the character THEY wanted me to play.
I'm getting really frustrated because I have been roleplaying for over ten years and I'm an alright writer and always detail that I require literacy as well as someone who is willing to work together and no matter what I post as an interest check, the only replies I get are from people who have a more casual roleplay style who want me to play as characters that they create.
I'm less annoyed with not getting many responses because I understand my interests are more niche. But the responses I do get are always from these kinds of people.
I don't understand why it keeps happening and wondered if it happens to other people
Also what should I do? Is there a nice way to say "hey I'm happy to incorporate things you like as well but this doesn't have anything to do with the plot or interests I listed and I wanna create my own character???"
Like????
I find I will post an interest check, and this mainly happened with 1x1s but I've even experienced it to a small degree with group roleplays. And I try to have a solid plot starting out and everything, as well as room for the other person to work in their ideas and characters. But I haven't gotten a single roleplay off the ground in several years because I keep running into the same issue.
Someone will say "hey, I like your plot/idea and would love to do this with you!" So I will respond and ask general questions like "okay what did you have in mind for your character?" Or "did you have any additional ideas you'd like to share?"
And I must be a magnet for these people because I swear every single time I'm getting people who immediately hit me with not just one but MULTIPLE already fleshed out characters with backstories and plots that do not fit the roleplay at all. Then even better, they tell me which one they'd like me to play!
They express interest in my original idea and then completely change it to something totally different with all their own characters. I went along with it for the hell of it one time and they STILL didn't like what I did with the character THEY wanted me to play.
I'm getting really frustrated because I have been roleplaying for over ten years and I'm an alright writer and always detail that I require literacy as well as someone who is willing to work together and no matter what I post as an interest check, the only replies I get are from people who have a more casual roleplay style who want me to play as characters that they create.
I'm less annoyed with not getting many responses because I understand my interests are more niche. But the responses I do get are always from these kinds of people.
I don't understand why it keeps happening and wondered if it happens to other people
Also what should I do? Is there a nice way to say "hey I'm happy to incorporate things you like as well but this doesn't have anything to do with the plot or interests I listed and I wanna create my own character???"
Like????