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It's a bit sad that people who we may call best friend or care about more can turn around and not feel the same way, and sometimes it's kinda why I never depend on anyone for my happiness so that I'm not disappointed in the long run.


But you're not alone or wrong for how you feel. You're not dumb because you feel and care more than others. At least you're genuine and sincere, probably more than people I know
 
crucialstar said:
You shouldn't be subjugated to being laughed at and put down like that. You were never replaced because they weren't true friends in the first place.
But I understand the pain because that really bites and hurts a lot. But you know what? You can't be replaced cause you're your own person. As much as someone tried to take your spot they can't. They may have brought someone new in but you don't need them in your life if they disregard you like that.
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Starfish said:
(<3)(<3)(<3)
You're wonderful love! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise!!!
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T-Thank you Starfish... I just... I don't know if i'll be able to draw for awhile...


And it's also my own fault... I technically ended things with them, but i wanted to apologize to them for how i acted because it is also my fault for taking the criticism so bad...
 
StarrySkyofLostSouls said:
T-Thank you Starfish... I just... I don't know if i'll be able to draw for awhile...
And it's also my own fault... I technically ended things with them, but i wanted to apologize to them for how i acted because it is also my fault for taking the criticism so bad...
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You can always tell them and apologize for your wrongdoings as well. There's nothing wrong with apologizing for your mistakes. But if they are also ugly about it then you will know if it's worth it or not.


As for drawing, take tour time and build your confidence. Hell you draw better than I can
 
If someone apologized to me after they were being wrong I would forgive them especially for a misunderstanding. But if someone was ugly to me it just proved that I wouldn't need them in my life to just bring me down when I deserve more.


The same is for you love. Plus you got your HP fambam here
 
crucialstar said:
You can always tell them and apologize for your wrongdoings as well. There's nothing wrong with apologizing for your mistakes. But if they are also ugly about it then you will know if it's worth it or not.
As for drawing, take tour time and build your confidence. Hell you draw better than I can
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two of them have already made there choice... and i found out one of them was in love with me... and i didn't know...
 
StarrySkyofLostSouls said:
two of them have already made there choice... and i found out one of them was in love with me... and i didn't know...
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oh my, you never know until something happens / too late
 
StarrySkyofLostSouls said:
...i feel even worse now... i honestly don't know how she fell in love with me... when it's usually me falling in love with them...
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perhaps you two can talk about it.
 
Take a breath Soul. Think hard. Think about what to say and how to say it. It may seem silly, but making a mental picture helps. Don't panic. I panic enough for two. I was just rejected and I know a bit how relationships work. Don't act on emotion, act on logic. I acted on emotion and it bit me in the ass. When I act on logic, it works for me. Step back from yourself. Close your eyes. Concentrate on your breathing, if any thought comes to you let it go through you, but always focus on your breathing. It's a meditation trick I use when I'm stressed. Don't take too long, but don't act on impulse. We are all here for you good or ill. I've know Twinkle and Pixie as almost long as I've been here and they are good people. Most people on here are good. Meditate and calm before action. Says the guy who panicked and acted on impulse. I'm shit at taking my own advice.
 
Inritz said:
Take a breath Soul. Think hard. Think about what to say and how to say it. It may seem silly, but making a mental picture helps. Don't panic. I panic enough for two. I was just rejected and I know a bit how relationships work. Don't act on emotion, act on logic. I acted on emotion and it bit me in the ass. When I act on logic, it works for me. Step back from yourself. Close your eyes. Concentrate on your breathing, if any thought comes to you let it go through you, but always focus on your breathing. It's a meditation trick I use when I'm stressed. Don't take too long, but don't act on impulse. We are all here for you good or ill. I've know Twinkle and Pixie as almost long as I've been here and they are good people. Most people on here are good. Meditate and calm before action. Says the guy who panicked and acted on impulse. I'm shit at taking my own advice.
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Maybe you need someone else to give it to you. xD
 
StarrySkyofLostSouls said:
Maybe you need someone else to give it to you. xD
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Probably, but I'm also stubborn and shit at taking advice. It's a curse. I've adulted for awhile so unless it's the person paid to listen to my bitching I tend to bottle it up and not take advice. I'm trying to get better. Having a screen between us helps. I've stayed away from the bottle but I cracked and bought a pack of smokes. I was doing so well too. Sigh. Oh well. I bought 100 pack of gum so I can start quitting again when it's done. If there is any advice I can give it's never start smoking. You smell like hell and you can buy so much if you don't.
 
Inritz said:
Probably, but I'm also stubborn and shit at taking advice. It's a curse. I've adulted for awhile so unless it's the person paid to listen to my bitching I tend to bottle it up and not take advice. I'm trying to get better. Having a screen between us helps. I've stayed away from the bottle but I cracked and bought a pack of smokes. I was doing so well too. Sigh. Oh well. I bought 100 pack of gum so I can start quitting again when it's done. If there is any advice I can give it's never start smoking. You smell like hell and you can buy so much if you don't.
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Then i guess we need to beat it into you. xD not literally of course. But if we have to, i'll keep a note.
 
Next time I feel sorry for myself, and trust me there will be a next time, I'll chat with you all before cracking and buying a pack.
 
Oh my goodness everyone! I wish I wasn't asleep so I could've been there for you all too! @StarrySkyofLostSouls i know how you feel but like Twinkle and Star said, those people aren't worth your time if they. Treat you so badly. I would try to forgive them in the end, cause you will feel much better and show them true grace, but as Eleanor Roosevelt I think once said, no one can make you feel bad without your permission. We are all here for you and I will do what I can to be a true friend to anyone here who needs one, whether I've met you all or not. It seems too many people in this world misunderstand friendship and they all need to crack open a Harry Potter book methinks. Heck even the Lord of the rings! Those were true friendships love.


And this message basically goes to all of you because honestly I only have one very good friend not online and I love you all dearly. That's not lip service.
 
Who do I need to post for...ah okay so if I miss anyone sorry but I think it's Isla, Amelia, Ajax and Midas? I dunno lol


I'll also probably send Xander to his room and make him sit on the naughty step...
 
I know ugh like I hate writing him but that's just him


I'm going to have to write up some cute Isla posts to balance it out. She's his complete opposite xD
 
Oh speaking of Isla, since Elliot is friends with Nikolai and Koni and they are his pack along with Isla, that would make her friends with Elliot too. A strange friendship to say the least xD
 
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