LAST person to post is the winner!!!

[Caiotic]

*protects my favorite characters*

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

DecENt drama....not bad DRama BUT STILL

... le what?

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

*protects my favorite characters*

lol you the type to get defensive over someone ripping apart a character you like?

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

also...

 

[Caiotic]

lol you the type to get defensive over someone ripping apart a character you like?

i dont like drama

 

[Silly Little Guy]

wrong attitude. come back to this when you are ready to see things from another perspective.

That’s not fair. I’ve tried in the past to change my perspective and it doesn’t work very well or at all

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

you are not alone.

Unfortunately I like to point out stuff that ppl then develop into drama sometimes...

I don't like ppl XD

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

That’s not fair. I’ve tried in the past to change my perspective and it doesn’t work very well or at all

need to be willing to change for change to happen

(this has the potential to be one of those times)

 

[Silly Little Guy]

need to be willing to change for change to happen

(this has the potential to be one of those times)

The issue is that I am willing to change. I’ve tried in the past full heartedly it simply doesn’t work

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

if you are willing and want it you don't give up. I think you must know that

 

[Silly Little Guy]

I don’t know how to change tho-

 

[Caiotic]

wait change what

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

When it comes to behavior change, it usually means being ready to engage in an action or series of actions that leads to the desired outcome and includes the ability or willingness to work towards the goal even though the process may not be fun, or rewarding, or enjoyable.

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

wait change what

think you'll need to read back

 

[Caiotic]

think you'll need to read back

yeah im just tired

 

[Silly Little Guy]

Ok but what actions-? Most things are out of my control

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

when it comes to eating and sleeping, yk the general basics for living, there are a million different options. You need to start looking and trying them out. It's all trial and error and as I said results don't happen over night or even over a week or sometimes a month

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

you need to be willing to stick to it and to challenge yourself and what you believe your limits to be. Being defeatist when it comes to your personal health should never be an option.

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

yeah im just tired

general denki health stuff again

 

[Caiotic]

general denki health stuff again

oooh

 

[Silly Little Guy]

Eating situation is in the mornings I don’t have time for breakfast before school, school lunches make me sick. As for sleep I’ve tried so many different things it just doesn’t work

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

you're being defeatist again. You are giving yourself excuses. Not uncommon, very common. I think we all do it at one point or another. But you are young and have so much time left, giving up now is simply insulting.

 

[Silly Little Guy]

I don’t see alternatives if the issue. If I could see options I would try them

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

like you say I don't have time for breakfast... grab a banana. lunch makes you sick for what reason? is that a food preference? surely not every food can make you sick. Sleep... even medical options?

 

[Ezina-Kusu]

I don’t see alternatives if the issue. If I could see options I would try them

not seeing past your issues. there are always options, they aren't easy often but they are there