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I gotta say I’m with Potato I’m this @Idea. Not every person is going to have your writing process and that is totally fine.
So I would think that being told that there is more than one to handle writers block is far more helpful than putting forward one way and assuming everyone will be helped equally by it.
When did I ever say people had the same writing process, or that there is not more than one way to handle writer's block? Heck, I even gave other suggestions of my own to deal with the problem in a more immediate sense.
You misunderstood the disagreement in my response to PhoenixMire . I did not state his method was invalid, I stated that nomatter who you are, building those good habits will help, not harm. The method is universal in application, but variable in response, in the amount of time and effort needed to develop the habits, as with any other consciously-developed habits ever. There are other methods that may be faster and easier- but the supposition that it is a matter of "being the type" if you will, or not being, is one which all too easily excuses people from putting in said effort.
My habits are not universally applicable nor am I suggesting any such thing. I said the method to produce good habits is universally applicable. The reason I can say that has nothing to do with my personal anything, it has to do with the way human beings acquire any other habit consciously, as I've already mentioned. The reason why I say this is universally applicable is the same reason the expression "practice makes perfect" exists, and the entire principle behind why the assembly line was such a success, because people naturally pick skills and can do things more easily as they repeat tasks, training, repetition, practice...But your assumption that your habits are universally applicable is the problem. They work for you they fit how you view writing.
I am not saying that this is how you are consciously set out the present yourself I am saying this is how you are perceived.
You disagree with my experience
I quite disagree with the conclusions you've taken from your experience
What standards set by others? I was talking about putting effort to overcome writer's block by developing good habits, what does that have to do with anything anyone else thinks?So I think it’s also important to remember that at the end of the day your mental health and your happiness is more important than what an anonymous stranger on the internet thinks of you.
The reason I hate the idea of pushing yourself and tying success to “effort” is that it feeds into negative self image and people’s insecurities.
It makes people feel like their failures if they don’t live up to some arbitrary standard set my others.
I agree with that. It's usually a good idea to try something before knocking it (not always, but it's a good idea in general). So I do feel that people should try pushing themselves at first - and if it works, that's awesome.Alright. I do suppose you may have a point there that I wasn't properly understanding, that of the dread becoming associated with the writing. So, in this discussion, I'll concede.
I still believe that, for most people, it is a method that does help, not harm, though I may concede that in fact for some it may bring harm. However, I believe that it the option of pushing oneself should before the option that involves giving up on it, as otherwise one doesn't really put in the kind of effort needed for it to ever take effect.
What standards set by others? I was talking about putting effort to overcome writer's block by developing good habits, what does that have to do with anything anyone else thinks?