Other Have you ever...

[Cartreck]

Have you ever been surrounded by populars and hated it so much? Like you felt like you stuck out more than a sore thumb? That's me right now.

 

[Kestrel]

Yup. For me, it was being in a crowded room, and yet, feeling so lost and lonely.

 

[Cartreck]

Yeah I understand that all to well.

 

[Lost]

I can relate.

 

[TheBusDriver]

I hate being near a group that's more than 10 people, especially people I don't know or whatever is classified as popular nowadays.

 

[Cartreck]

Yeah I totally know what you mean. I go to a school were people think it is funy to tease you about your problems. I was sitting in spanish yesterday and we were doing this thingwere you had to fingure out what part of the body a card was talking about, I was sitting at a desk writing down the answer, and my partners were looking at the card behind me and leaning over me. and i thought "This is fine they arent doing it on purpuse." Then these other two come over adn start doing the same thing. and i start freak out. My go to thing is to laugh, and they thought i was actually like, oh this funny. and i was sitting there like, no, this isnt funny im actually freaking out right now, back off.

 

[Kestrel]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's not funny when your the one being bullied.

 

[Cartreck]

Well they werent bullying me, i just dont come off as the type of person to hate being touched and crowded. Its weird because i touch and crowd people all the time. A major flaw that i have. And it makes people mad when I say i hate Being touvhed because i do it all the time.

 

[Kestrel]

Ah. Well, that, makes sense. I'm also pretty against most physically contact, especially with strangers or people I don't know well. People often think it's funny or helpful to hug me, etc, which frustrates me or freaks me out. I've gotten better, but I'm still socially inept.

 

[Cartreck]

Same. Unless I personally want to touch that person I do not want to be touch. Simply as that and people don't understand that.

 

[Kestrel]

People: Oh you're shy? Lemme hug you and make it better. People aren't that scary.

 

[Cartreck]

Oh my god you understand!


Person: puts arm around my shoulder


Me: please take your arm off of me. You know I hate being touched.


Person: oh come on it doesn't matter.


Me: fine. But from now on. Don't touch me.


Next day


Person: tries to hold my hand because he knows I don't like when he touches me.


Me: dude what did I tell you yesterday.


Person : I do what I want.


Me: (to myself) would my mom really care if there is blood on my shirt. And I've seen people function without hands.

 

[Kestrel]

People: Hey, she looks sad. Let's suprise hug her.


Me: Yeah. Try and see what happens.


Person: You can speak! I... I thought you were mute.


Me: Are you serious!

 

[Cartreck]

Haha no one thinks I'm mute I'm very open with my words, usually they aren't nice.

 

[Kestrel]

Yup, they seriously thought I was mute. I've also heard "Oh, I didn't know you had friends!" and "You have a boyfriend? How'd that happen?"

 

[Cartreck]

Wait be are seriously that rude? I'm I usually hear. "Wait, your gay? I didn't know that!"


Like seriously? Have you not seem me walk or heard me speak? I'm basically stereotypical without the fashion sense lol.

 

[Kestrel]

The comment about no friends was accidental, I think. They invited me to eat lunch with them. I told them I would, but i wanted to let my friends know. They meant that they didn't know I had a group to eat with. I'm not sure what to make of the boyfriend comment.

 

[Cartreck]

Yeah I understand. My problem is that people that I consider my friends can be very rude. Like its just the way they are.and people are like, well then they aren't really your friends.but I love them for either are. Just, they could ease up kn the taunting.

 

[Kestrel]

My friends are actually pretty awesome. They're very loyal and sarcastic, but they can all take the same teasing that they dish out.

 

[RavenWing13]

When I was in high school, I was a drifter. I drifted from group to group, not really having friends. It was cool. But I was one of those people who stood up for the ones who couldn't, and assisted in school work, when someone didn't understand. To this day, I hate people. At least the "real" people in school and work... and life.... Only a few people ever get close to me, and I like it exactly like that

 

[Kestrel]

By friends, I mean my 2 best friends and 2 friends. In Jr. High I didn't have any friends really. My only true friend went to a different school, but things have actually gotten better, so I'm happy about that.

 

[TrainOfTrance]

Oh my god you understand!
Person: puts arm around my shoulder


Me: please take your arm off of me. You know I hate being touched.


Person: oh come on it doesn't matter.


Me: fine. But from now on. Don't touch me.


Next day


Person: tries to hold my hand because he knows I don't like when he touches me.


Me: dude what did I tell you yesterday.


Person : I do what I want.


Me: (to myself) would my mom really care if there is blood on my shirt. And I've seen people function without hands.

Remind me to never get your attention by tapping on one of your shoulders asking for an extra pencil in class.... lol

 

[Cartreck]

Remind me to never get your attention by tapping on one of your shoulders asking for an extra pencil in class.... lol

I mean if it's simply to do that. It doesn't matter, the whole, oh it doesn't matter you love me, all that jazz then yeah, I'll remind you lol

 

[TrainOfTrance]

I mean if it's simply to do that. It doesn't matter, the whole, oh it doesn't matter you love me, all that jazz then yeah, I'll remind you lol

LOL.

 

[Thana Dies Irea]

You can say thats story of my life.