Appearance rolls in on the first impression that folks get. How pretty is someone? How attractive?  Part of that rolls in carriage and poise.  Yes' date=' it's non-verbal, but it's that critical first impression. [/quote']
If someone was trying to impress another person on a first impression with carriage and poise instead of just how they looked, I'd probably have them roll Charisma (if simply going off of how they naturally carry themselves) or Manipulation (if they were faking it intentionally for a given effect) instead of Appearance. Â
How many folks have pined over a beautiful woman' date=' only to find out that she's about as poisonous as a coral snake after a few minutes? Rude, pushy, inconsiderate? But, she has great poise and wonderful carriage.  [/quote']
Rude, pushy, and inconsiderate people can still be VERY charismatic. Â Not all of charisma is being NICE to people.
In game terms' date=' you can poll that one up to high Apperance, low Charisma.  [/quote']
You possibly could, but you could also make an identical character that had high Appearance AND high Charisma, who was still rude, pushy, and inconsiderate. Â Harsh personalities WORK for some people, and many people like jerks, plain and simple.
You can justify a boost in Appearance in game terms without someone getting radical surgery by them just exuding that special something that comes from confidence' date=' or you can use the tried and true method used by film and television, and have them let their hair down from the bun, take off their glasses, and put them in a tiny black dress and suddenly wow folks. [/quote']
I don't think so, but whatever floats your boat.  Confidence is Charisma (if real) or Manipulation (if feigned) where I'm coming from.ÂÂ
You could, but nothing in print justifies this for anyone but the Abyssals, or possibly the Lunars, who have shapeshifting Charms that can accomodate it.With Exalts, you don't even have to use this method. They're infused with little slices of Heavenly Glory.  It just keeps coming out, transmogrifying them as they grow in power.  Blemishes disappear, they become ideals, growing more and more lovely each and every day. ÂÂ
I think that you can easily justify an increase in Appearance' date=' especially in game terms.  You can do so in number of ways.[/quote']
Your suggestions mostly have to do with confidence (which I don't think is Appearance), dressing differently (which shouldn't be possible; your ATTRIBUTES should not be variable based on your SITUATION. Â A pretty man who dressed to ugly himself wouldn't lower his Appearance by 2 dots, he'd just take a hit on Appearance rolls), or magic (which can justify anything I suppose).
I'm still very close to ditching it for Empathy. Â Appearance is useless, and shouldn't be an Attribute.