Other Am I doing something wrong?

Hazbin_Transformers

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Hi all... Just rather down in the dumps lately - I absolutely love rp's and making new friends but it seems like everyone I keep trying to get in contact with doesn't... Ive been plagued by people
1. not responding
2. I make a starter after we plan and they ghost or leave the conversation
3. We've been writting the story and they just up and leave the conversation....

I get really attached so its a little soul crushing 😭
 
It just happens. While it may or may not be your fault, there will be plenty of times that you won't even get a goodbye(or an eff you). Had this happen with friendships over 10 years old. Best you can do is not get attached to anyone too strongly and just enjoy the good times while they last. :) This was something I was taught early on in my internet surfing days and this advice has served me well since then.
 
It just happens. While it may or may not be your fault, there will be plenty of times that you won't even get a goodbye(or an eff you). Had this happen with friendships over 10 years old. Best you can do is not get attached to anyone too strongly and just enjoy the good times while they last. :) This was something I was taught early on in my internet surfing days and this advice has served me well since then.
Oh ive learned not to get attached but unfortunately there are some I still do... I've had it happen before but it jsut seems so bad lately and to rub it in by seeing posts of that person looking for new partners still hurts.. Ive been trying to get into new stories and make friends but unfortunately not thinking this is the place if im going to be ghosted so often.
 
Oh ive learned not to get attached but unfortunately there are some I still do... I've had it happen before but it jsut seems so bad lately and to rub it in by seeing posts of that person looking for new partners still hurts.. Ive been trying to get into new stories and make friends but unfortunately not thinking this is the place if im going to be ghosted so often.
It's normal to not be happy about it, but it's also out of your control.
 
Yeah I feel you, I’ve felt a bit discouraged because I’ve dealt with this on here, too. 😔🫂🫂
 
I just joined RPNation today, so I haven’t experienced this here but I definitely know what it feels like. 🫤 Sorry to hear you’re feeling down. I hope you can find the writing partner(s) you’re looking for.
 
it's seriously irregular behaviour and shouldn't be so normalized, honestly. i felt hard for this post especially because i've shared a few of these experiences. it just doesn't make sense, really. at the very least, there's nothing hard about communicating.
 

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