Chimney Swift
i am confusion
"Toxic masculinity" exists, but not in the way feminists like to say. Toxic masculinity exists in the same way that toxic femininity exists. There are toxic behaviors that are just more prevalent in men, as well as toxic behaviors that are more prevalent in women.
I like to think of toxic masculinity as using the concept of masculinity to excuse toxic behavior. Shit like "boys will be boys" or attempts to normalize shitty treatment of women as "normal" behavior for men, when in fact these behaviors have nothing to do with being male and everything to do with being a shitty person.