I know surely there are adults on here and I know there might be some parents too, but I have one huge question for anyone who is raising a teenager:
If you have been exactly in our place before, fifteen years old and stressing greatly over school, then why do you act like it is no big deal?
I have seven classes. Each teacher thinks one hour of homework is a good amount, because we need time to do other activities after school. That is one hour for each of my seven classes: seven hours of homework. I get out of school at 2:30 and I have to walk the dog, babysit, vacuum, and do other chores until my mom gets home at 6:00 for dinner. I still have seven hours of homework; I end up only completing half of it, and my mother gets mad at me for slacking off in my other classes. Did children in the 80's not get as much work as us? It does not make sense to me.
My mother was a cheerleader in high school. She dated an (apologies if this is rasict) over-spoiled white surfer boy in high school, who was my dad. I know I should not be following stereotypes, but I think a cheerleader dating a rich white boy gets bullied a lot less than a gay teen with anemia who gets mistaken for a girl. My mother thinks she knows so much better than me; she thinks I am lying about the sexual harrassment, she thinks I am lying about getting beat up, and she thinks I wrote the word f***** on myself for attention. There are millions of teens who are victims to bullying and our parents look over it. Why do you do this?! You are our parents; you are supposed to stick up for us when we need help!
All I can conclude is that the world of high school is easier than the world of adulthood our parents go through, which only makes me want to sink into the floor and die. Even though we are young and still immature, high school is the single most difficult thing we are going through right now and parents need to acknowledge that.
If you have been exactly in our place before, fifteen years old and stressing greatly over school, then why do you act like it is no big deal?
I have seven classes. Each teacher thinks one hour of homework is a good amount, because we need time to do other activities after school. That is one hour for each of my seven classes: seven hours of homework. I get out of school at 2:30 and I have to walk the dog, babysit, vacuum, and do other chores until my mom gets home at 6:00 for dinner. I still have seven hours of homework; I end up only completing half of it, and my mother gets mad at me for slacking off in my other classes. Did children in the 80's not get as much work as us? It does not make sense to me.
My mother was a cheerleader in high school. She dated an (apologies if this is rasict) over-spoiled white surfer boy in high school, who was my dad. I know I should not be following stereotypes, but I think a cheerleader dating a rich white boy gets bullied a lot less than a gay teen with anemia who gets mistaken for a girl. My mother thinks she knows so much better than me; she thinks I am lying about the sexual harrassment, she thinks I am lying about getting beat up, and she thinks I wrote the word f***** on myself for attention. There are millions of teens who are victims to bullying and our parents look over it. Why do you do this?! You are our parents; you are supposed to stick up for us when we need help!
All I can conclude is that the world of high school is easier than the world of adulthood our parents go through, which only makes me want to sink into the floor and die. Even though we are young and still immature, high school is the single most difficult thing we are going through right now and parents need to acknowledge that.