archur
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Nah nah, it's not that serious. When I mean that something ugly happens, they just give me a verbal beatdown...
And the verbal beatdown they give is more like helpful advice than cursing and yelling and all. And most of the time, they do give me a shouting or two but it's really my fault. But it's been happening so much that I've really lost trust in my family and I see no hope of improvement... when it reality all I have to do is just... grab my bootstraps and stand up.
It's just a few hurt feelings that I haven't really faced up to until now.
Ah, I see. It's not that then. Do you have any family members that take your side? I mean, if anything I can supply you with comebacks as to why you aren't taking their advice.
You see, my dad likes to say to me 'You see how hard I work? How stressed I am? Why don't you have a job?" He has offered for me to work with him, but he likes to push back the training days over and over again. All the way to Summer. So, while my dad went on another tirade about that, my mom stepped in and said, 'Alright, so you telling Exiled to get a job so he can go to college, but you aren't supplying him with any tools to do so. You're just telling him to "DO THIS THING" without giving instruction or direction. He's not going to do it, because you're not investing any effort into helping him do so, you're just yelling to yell.' It gave him a second to think, and he apologized to me. Still waiting on him to teach me, but at least he isn't trying to urge me to do something I have no clue about.