Other Sexuality crisis, advice is needed

[spookie ayumi]

my name is ayumi and I'm a they/them I currently think I'm pansexaul but recently I have been feeling different. I've been with boys more than girls but everytime I'm with a guy it feels weird and I don't feel like I'm getting what I need out of it (same goes for trans men I've been with one or two) but when I'm with a girl it feels right and I'm getting what I need-ive never broken up with any of my girlfriends they left me but I'm so confused am I pansexual?lesbian?is there a name for nonbinarys who only like girls? I'm so confused and I need help

 

[Rebel.]

Hi, Ayumi.

From what I know, I don't think there's a specific term for NBs who prefers women (which is not surprising as NB has only recently been more or less accepted as an identity) though there doesn't need to be. You can simply label yourself as someone who likes women if you so wish. Gender is a bunch of nothing and if labels are not helping you, then you don't need them. You can just say "I'm a NB who only likes girls!" and that's it.

Hope that helps you some!

 

[Murdergurl]

Why just not worry about slapping a label on yourself and just enjoy wherever it is that you are in your life? Not everything needs to fit into a category. Not everything needs to have an affixed label. Just be you, and that's what you are.