My Sister Fate (heavy topic)

[Valhite]

I've decided to share my memory to you all. Maybe one of you could provide happiness to me


6 years ago, I thought that I was the big brother for 2 little brothers of mine. But things went bizarre when I was introduced to my Big Sister, which I hadn't met for 12 years of my life (back then, I was 12 years old). I thought that I was their first son, but instead I have a big sister . Why they never told me I have a big sister? I don't know why. My whole family left me with my big sister, because of my dad work we should split up. My brothers follow my family and I left with my big sister.


She is 6 years older than me, and lived alone. For few months, I still felt very distant with my Sister, even though she cared me like i'm a baby or something. Even when I was stuck in the middle of rain when i'm going home from school, she came for me and gave me her umbrella, even though our home and my school was 30 km apart. She always be there to help me and protect me. She acted like a big sister and guardian angel. I LOVE HER. We spent a lot of happiness together, as a brother and sister..


But things went terribly wrong after 13 months of living together. I had a heart attack and some anomalies happened at my heart. I don't know what because they never told me. And I had to have an operation to cure my heart. But, the operation went wrong. I loss so much blood. So much, that the doctor told my family that I would die in 4 days if I didn't have enough blood transfered to my body.. And my blood type is a rare type they said, not many people have my kind of blood type. That's when some volunteer decided to transfer their blood to me, but it still wasn't enough... until my sister stepped in and transfered her blood until it met the requierement. The next 7 days, I opened my eyes and realized that I still alive! I could see my dad and mom teary face and they were happy! But one thing is missing. My sister... she died... Because of Anemia...


She died protecting me on 20 November, 6 years ago. I found her dying wish in her abandoned house. My family hadn't told me about her fate, they told me that my sister went overseas, until I found her dying wish, which is 5 years ago.. 1 year after her final moment to live... sorry for my bad English. English is my second language. And i'm sorry if the story is somewhat strange, they never told me what kind of sickness I had. They only told me that I had an anomally in my heart, and my sister died because of Anemia...

 

[TanteRegenbogen]

Died of anemia? Holy hell, how much blood did she donate, because normally doctors would only drawn a particular amount of blood to avoid an anemia.

 

[Toivoajarakkaus]

I am Sorry for your loss... I hope that you feel better. If you need someone to talk to, I am here. At least you know that she gave up her life so you could change the world for her.

 

[Toivoajarakkaus]

Died of anemia? Holy hell, how much blood did she donate, because normally doctors would only drawn a particular amount of blood to avoid an anemia.

That was a bit rude... :megusta:

 

[TanteRegenbogen]

Sorry, I didn't see that as rude. I am often unaware of whether what I say can be rude or not.

 

[Tryss]

Died of anemia? Holy hell, how much blood did she donate, because normally doctors would only drawn a particular amount of blood to avoid an anemia.

I have to agree here.


As someone who has worked in the medical feild, I can tell you that I see a lot of fishy details in this.


I have to assume that IF this is true, it was done in a country with very lenient (and dangerous) laws and protocols.


Although, like I said...I see a lot of things in this story that don't add up.

 

[Toivoajarakkaus]

I have to agree here.
As someone who has worked in the medical feild, I can tell you that I see a lot of fishy details in this.


I have to assume that IF this is true, it was done in a country with very lenient (and dangerous) laws and protocols.


Although, like I said...I see a lot of things in this story that don't add up.

I have no experience in Doctors or surgery, but something just isn't right. How much blood did Valhite lose? That would be the only explanation, if Valhite lost too much and the doctors had to get more blood to save Valhite.

 

[Tryss]

[QUOTE="The Reaper Of Souls]I have no experience in Doctors or surgery, but something just isn't right. How much blood did Valhite lose? That would be the only explanation, if Valhite lost too much and the doctors had to get more blood to save Valhite.

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Honestly, there's such an oversupply of blood (at least in my area) that I have a REALLY hard time believing they didn't have enough available.


On top of that, I can say I've never heard of anyone dying of "anemia" while giving blood. There are some conditions tat might cause seizures and other complications while giving blood, but it's rare, and I've never heard of anyone dying during it. I mean...I'm no expert, but like I said, I did spend a lot of time in the medical feild...and none of his story is adding up.

 

[Toivoajarakkaus]

It could of been another cause.

 

[Tryss]

[QUOTE="The Reaper Of Souls]It could of been another cause.

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It could have been. However he specifically stated that she died of "anemia" and that that's all the doctor would tell him. Right there is my biggest issue with the story. If you're potentially dying of something, the doctors will tell you EVERYTHING they know about the condition or disease killing you.


They won't just put you under for a major surgery without explaining what they're doing and how they're fixing what's wrong.


And I know someone is going to say that his parents might not have wanted him to know. Well, based upon his timeline he's of age right now which means if he actually wanted to know what was wrong he could request an explanation.


Like I said...there are a lot of things that don't add up here. I have a very hard time believing any of this.

 

[Valhite]

It could have been. However he specifically stated that she died of "anemia" and that that's all the doctor would tell him. Right there is my biggest issue with the story. If you're potentially dying of something, the doctors will tell you EVERYTHING they know about the condition or disease killing you.
They won't just put you under for a major surgery without explaining what they're doing and how they're fixing what's wrong.


And I know someone is going to say that his parents might not have wanted him to know. Well, based upon his timeline he's of age right now which means if he actually wanted to know what was wrong he could request an explanation.


Like I said...there are a lot of things that don't add up here. I have a very hard time believing any of this.

The doctor told it. At least to my family. Which they never told me. I know that a lot of things I said don't add up. Even I hadd a hard time believing this,until I saw her graveyard. My father told me that she suffered Anemia. I know that my story is fishy. I know that. Sorry. If I myself have a clear detail about this I would have told you. I don't know why she suffered anemia, my father only told me that I needed lot of blood. It was a failed surgery. And my blood type they said, is very rare. If didn't have enough blood, I will die. Even the doctor said it was impossible for me to search for volunteer,because only my brother and father could donor their blood. This is also why I post it, I want to know the truth. This is what they said to me.