Other I need help. Planning for my 21st birthday.

[Nokumi]

Please help PLEASE

My 21st birthday is not for 5 months but I need to start planning now. I want my friends and my dad to join me and Uhg his girlfriend is gonna hafto go too even tho I dont like her.

If I get everyone I want to go to go theres gonna be atleast 9 to 11 people. Unless of course they find a baby sitter and leave my little cousin whos 2 years old at home. Not to be rude or mean. But the reason I say this is cuz I planned an escape room. But. Theres only 8 people max at the one I wanna go to. Escape rooms are not for babies.


But I dont even know if I wanna go to escape room. I thought maybe a themed hotel would be nice? But none of the hotels have a consistant theme for all the bedrooms. Each bedroom is different. Either that or it doesnt interest me anough.

I need to know what im gonna do in atleast 2 months in advance so I can send invites and get answers from people. And so my dad can take time off. No dad no party. I cant drive and I cant do anything on my own.

So 2 months in advance would be ideal.

Im struggling to find something to do.

Disney world or cruise is out of the idea cuz thats way to expensive. Even tho I would love to go.

I cant find any themed hotels as I stated which I would like Star Trek. Or something so phantasy like. Like maybe midevil? Or forest like. But I want the theme to be consistant through out the hotel.

Or if all else fails i would like to do something fun. Like an escape room. But non scary. Just something to think on. Maybe not an escape room. Maybe something like …. What ever you call those rooms where you hafto shoot eachother in a military style fashion? And theres walls and mazes and stuff? I have no clue what they are called. But they sound fun! Unless they hurt like BB gun and paint ball guns then Nevermind.


I cant drink cuz my medicine. Drinking would kill me. And I dont wanna go to a casino. I would get addicted too easily.



PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!!!!

 

[Nokumi]

Maybe a theme park?… but then not everyone can enjoy it cuz some of my friends cant get on rides….


Same for horse back riding…

 

[SavannahSmiles]

"What ever you call those rooms where you hafto shoot eachother in a military style fashion? And theres walls and mazes and stuff?"

Are you talking about laser tag? If so, it doesn't hurt ^^ You all get a vest that lights up and vibrates a little to indicate you've been 'shot'. I've done it a couple of times, its fun!

 

[Nokumi]

"What ever you call those rooms where you hafto shoot eachother in a military style fashion? And theres walls and mazes and stuff?"

Are you talking about laser tag? If so, it doesn't hurt ^^ You all get a vest that lights up and vibrates a little to indicate you've been 'shot'. I've done it a couple of times, its fun!

No lol. I know laser tag, similar but I'm talking the other thing... that I've seen actual legit military people do... I seen a video on it. Sadly I can't remember what it was.... something actually shot out of the gun.

 

[Nokumi]

I didn't get a good look at the gun nor what shot out of it

 

[SavannahSmiles]

Hmmm, if it’s not laser tag or paint ball, then airsoft is the only other thing I can think of.

 

[Onmyoji]

I'm not sure what you budget is, but you could try to book a venue (like a restaurant or banquet hall or something like that) and have a themed party there. Possibly hire a host that could provide games and contests for the guests (or create them yourself and maybe ask a couple friends to help you), and ask everyone to dress accordingly (Star Trek cosplay or something sci-fi related?). The hardest part will probably be to convince your guests to dress up unless they're all into Star Trek lol But if they are, they'll likely enjoy the idea.