I honestly feel that way too. It makes me feel extremely insecure, and I keep asking myself what I did wrong. I guess it's just something that happens.
Too many one liners that add nothing: I dont ask for a novel. I'll take a one liner, as long as it adds to the story. I cant handle one liner after one liner, over and over. Dont sit there and expect me to do all the work. Give me something to work with.
With my experience, I personally dont like roleplaying with OCs.
Every time I roleplay canon x oc, I always end up doing most of the work, and the other person never really adds to the story.
I feel like they always expect me to come up with the next plot point. I dont want to always be the one...