I'm.. so sorry, every time I come on RPNation I get absolutely overwhelmed with bad memories of being accused of ghosting a roleplay I was apparently "disinterested" in (I wasn't, shit got busy and I didn't have the means to say so at that time).
I'm not used to the current-day roleplay...
Gosh, if I'm being honest, I can't even keep up with anything on a weekly basis! That's probably why people steer clear of me when it comes to roleplay 😂 I take.. more than a week, sometimes a month, and I suppose that's enough to drive most mad! I could never mean it to be any form of...
Admittedly this is a bit of a copy-paste from months ago (well, the first paragraph at least), but:
When people assume you don't care for a thread because you haven't responded yet/in a while and lack the spoons to tackle it. That's my biggest gripe trying to find partners, Activity is their...
Hello, I'm Ally/Windstar, and I am particularly in the neighborhood in search for a (hopefully Long-term) Sonic the Hedgehog roleplay!
I've been roleplaying for over a decade and can write at an intermediate level, at best- and would love to get the habit back into practice. I am not picky...
I sympathize with this greatly, I've been out of practice with RP in general, and back in my day plotting extensively beforehand wasn't really a thing so it's a thing I struggle to latch onto.
That, and when people assume you don't care for a thread because you haven't responded yet/in a while...
lol right?? It just feels like self-projection from said parties sometimes. I just don't get it, and it does not feel so kind and just kind of ruins it for the roleplayers involved altogether.
People are just so quick to judge another player for their lack of spoons, it's just BAD.
and, for the record, there's a difference between ACTIVE and LONGTERM roleplays, I have no idea when in the recent decade the line was blurred between the two. A Longterm Roleplay is one you can set down and pick back up at literally ANY time. Seriously, what the hell?!
Debating giving this site another chance. It's hard when the community at large believes that Extensive Periods of Silence are equal to "Ghosting" or "Disinterest", rather than just not having enough steam most of the time.
I'm a very low-energy person to begin with so I take those accusations...
I deeply apologize, I am no longer interested in upkeeping the 1x1s I had on here, as I've been disengaged with this site itself for quite some time. This is no one's fault, all of you had very nice writing and I enjoyed it the little time I'd committed to 1x1s. I do not know if I'll pick this...