My favorite character hands down is Eduardo from Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends. He is my favorite because
1) He dresses metal, most likely in attempts to look more intimidating. I really like the style.
2) The fact that he doesn't match the stereotype for the way he dresses, he is a shy...
I have been reading your posts and I just want you to know that I am someone you can talk to if you would like. I might not be able to help, but I will listen.
Don't let your family take away the satisfaction of your progress, prove to them that what they say won't bother you and they will quit. Hopefully this was some sort of help for you...